• rumschlumpel@feddit.org
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        Even if they are, a lot of people “get the ick” about gay men when they have to deal with them close and personally, not even bisexual women are exempt from this.

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          I’ve never had a problem with it, because I just view it as the trash taking itself out.

          This circumstance is pretty fake though

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          a lot of people “get the ick” about gay men when they have to deal with them

          Man, I’m not even bi and I feel annoyed at the bi erasure here. Mainly because I grew up with a bisexual mother who claimed guys couldn’t be bisexual and were just gay guys pretending.

          Not saying it was intentional, seeing that just brought up a lot of annoying memories…

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            Sorry for the imprecise language. I’m a bi man myself and I’m usually better about this … should have used some variant of men loving men.

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    Sexuality is a spectrum. All that trying to make sexual preference binary does is make people stressed out.

    Shrooms made them feel free and live the moment. They shared an amazing moment in time. It doesn’t have to be or mean more than that.

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    Men and comphets are wild. The guy cheated on his girlsfriend and he is still panicking about himself and if he is gay rather than the harm to her. Dickhead

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      Devils advocate here, but depending on the relationship, a seismic shift in my own identity might be more urgent to think thru than how it affects someone I just started dating.

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    the shit that happens when you force people to deny their sexuality. not condone, but this happens, this is real, we should deal with it.