Ohhhhh yes. Okay, I know the one!

My mind went to the Taniks fight from Deep Stone Crypt for some reason, but I don’t think that’s correct. Unless it’s the “kill” symbol from Vow??

I get this more and more often!! Even just passing by a mirror the other day I had to double back because I caught a glimpse of a woman looking back at me!! 💜

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Honestly I want a Linux phone, but the scene needs to mature a bit. I’d also like a physical keyboard, so I’m even more limited in my options. LilyGo just released something I’d try, but it sold out almost instantly. Good call on the signal transfer, though I wish better platforms were catching on. Having to use a phone number to sign up kind of defeats the purpose in my opinion. Graphene and Postmark are on my short list of things to try if I end up on an android device.

To be totally honest I didn’t read your entire post, but just from your intro I think we are in similar situations. ISP router, low costs, using only the hardware you have around. I’ve solved a lot of stuff with Tailscale. None of my services are public facing and instead I connect to them over Tailscale (could be replaced with wireguard).

The wall I’m hitting you or maybe others could help with, is accessing my services from sub domains of a single Tailscale address rather than having to type port numbers for everything. I know this involves a reverse proxy and DNS (I use PiHole for that), but I’m stuck trying to configure the two in a way that actually works. Once I finally ditch iOS for good I’ll probably just sync a hosts file between all my devices using Syncthing to help streamline the DNS situation.

The token cis gay guy in my AFK friend group 😆

Also non-binary on feminizing hormones! Sometimes it feels like a tricky spot to exist in, but I can’t agree more that learning and experimenting with language has helped me settle into that fluidity!

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Alice Cappelle - Sort of general/mixed topic video essays

Anna Hazelnutt - Rock climbing, focused more on outdoor climbing lately, but has good variety in the backlog

AnRel - Very few uploads, but has an amazing video on “Semantics”

Ayliean - Fun math tidbits and info dumps

Bernadette Banner - Period accurate sewing and fashion

Colleen’s Manga Recs - Anime, manga, and comic discussion, analysis, and recommendations

DamiLee - Architecture, urban planning, and design, might use some AI to make graphics, but still very well researched vids

eggybricks - LEGOs!!! Two women that make wonderful LEGO builds

elle literacy - Video essays, often about lit/film, but also just current trends

Freya Holmer - High level programming concepts, presented in a language agnostic way, also great for big autistic (projecting maybe?) info dumps/rants

Gab Smolders - Cozy gaming

GET HANDS DIRTY - Somewhat general maker, but has far more character than just a middle aged man in a basement with 10 free from sponsors 3D printers

Ginny Di - Medium form DnD content, some skits and shorts

Hannah Morris Bouldering - Rock climbing, ranging from training to theory to documentary

Honey Bat - Video game analysis video essays

ICKY - Trans creator covering a lot of general transition info with some more humor based vids as well

Kathleen Illustrated - Thrifting, some diy and sewing

Lacrymastory - Homemade cosplay fashion, focused on latex, with some fetish and kink wear design too

Laura Kampf - Another maker with great character and a focus on simple, build-able projects

Maggie Mae Fish - Film/cinema analysis video essays

Make It Fit - Homemade intimates

MallBat - Short animated art films

Meeka le Fay - Medium form video essays on many topics, largely socio-political

Naomi Brockwell TV - Tech and open source news/info

parkenharbor - Souls games and sort of general game streamer mostly Vods from live content

Philosophy Tube - Video essays about all sorts of stuff! Sort of my standard rec for the type of content

Sarah Spaceman - Cosplay, both making and sometimes drama in the community

Simone Giertz - Sort of “the” femme maker. Always makes great projects and has some nice products available too

SnappyDragon - Period fashion with some video essays and film/tv fashion reaction content

Squiiji - V-Tuber discussing mostly vtubing and some general digital art

STRANGE AEONS - Internet lore dumps, very funny

TAEETIMEE - Short animated art vids

TechWorld with Nana - Various dev topics, I mostly cherry pick if I need a tutorial

The Art Assignment - Not currently uploading, but great videos on art and art history

The Book Leo - Relatively in depth book reviews, discussions, and recommendations

tokaku - Rhythm games

unajoy - Variety video essay channel, decent amount of socio-political discussion, but sometimes more “artsy” for lack of a better term

Veronica Explains - Open Source/Linux/Unix tutorials and explanation vids

Vihart - Huh, used to have lots of fun math vids, now only has a single vid. Maybe moved platforms?

withwendy - Thrifting, sewing, and fashion

Xyla Foxlin - Maker, aviation, model rockets (the big ones), and more recently some pilot mental health advocacy

There’s a few I’m missing because I was using my subscription list from FreeTube, and I’ve subbed to a few channels on my TV since last I synced them.

Honorable mentions for either not femme bipoc folks or creators I’m not sure the identity of but give great energy, sometimes both!

Accented Cinema - film analysis and review

Andrewism - Video essays, mostly socio-political, but often with an urbanist lens and some solar punks vibes throughout

D’Angelo Wallace - Video essays, mostly internet drama

Elliot Sang - Video essays, also very socio-political minded

Garrison Hayes - Medium form video essays, socio-political for the most part

Glory Allan - More modern sewing basics and fashion

goblish - Art and drawing theory with a bit of history

Jonathan Sin - climbing, bit more travel and interview based

jvscholz - Tech, sort of? Basically got me into linux, but is technically a study channel

Novaspirit Tech - Tech, linux, selfhosting, I’ve used many of his tutorials

Oh The Urbanity - Urbanism

OzTalksHW - Great channel for budget tech suggestions and builds

Rinoa’s Auspicious Travails - Variety? It’s all loosely tech related, but will also sometimes talk about something sort of out of nowhere

Toonarii - Anime and animation break downs, mostly fight scenes. Very funny imo

Ohhh!! I love this! I went through all my interests and replaced generic white men that made content on them with femme and poc folks. I’ve got a lot of subscriptions, so I’ll add a full list once I’m at a full size keyboard and screen.

I honestly had something very similar happen timing wise. A breakup that coincided with me starting hrt. It was a rough combo, but similarly finding roommates that I trust with my whole self has helped a ton.

Huh, good to know. I know of a company that makes tuck kits and tape that uses it in their logo. I feel like I remember reading a post on their blog about the history of the symbol that included trans and gnc folk. I’ll see if I can track it down, but I had also thought it was just used for gay men in Nazi Germany when I first learned about that period in school.

I have a boox for bigger screen reading and a Hisense touch for on the go. I like them both. Wish I could more easily tweak the boox, and wish I could more easily ditch all the vendor crapware off the Hisense, but they do their jobs well enough. Hisense gets bonus points for being a hi-fi device that can drive my IEMs.

I’m very similar. Getting into self hosting and finding Lemmy happened somewhat in tandem. Now I’m happily tinkering along and looking at hosting my own instance! This comm has been a huge resource and seems very active!!

Deal.

Yeah, Tailscale!! It’s a very nicely packaged front end for Wireguard, which is a “mesh vpn” if I’m remembering my terms properly. Basically makes all my devices think they are on the same network at all times, and provides convenient names to use to connect to them.