Devils advocate here, but depending on the relationship, a seismic shift in my own identity might be more urgent to think thru than how it affects someone I just started dating.
I would argue the issue to be communication. It is his responsibility to communicate his needs with her before violating her boundaries. Its a consent violation at the end of the day.
Devils advocate here, but depending on the relationship, a seismic shift in my own identity might be more urgent to think thru than how it affects someone I just started dating.
I would argue the issue to be communication. It is his responsibility to communicate his needs with her before violating her boundaries. Its a consent violation at the end of the day.
I mean, he was high on shrooms and had no idea he liked dick X3 this is for sure not a dickhead situation :P