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Stamets@lemmy.world to 196English · 1 day ago

subtlety rule

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    “This artifact suggests that the two women, who were lifelong roommates, also enjoyed hobbies like sewing or papercraft together.” — Future Archeologists, probably.

    • BleatingZombie@lemmy.world
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      “But, would frequently get into arguments, as shown by the fighting scissors”

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    “Is she… you know… into making her own clothes?”

    • KoboldCoterie@pawb.social
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      It’s all about that plausible deniability.

      “What did you think it meant? Oh my god, you pervert!”

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      She’s a TAYLOR swift fan.

      • anomnom@sh.itjust.works
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        Might make right wing assholes hate you more.

        • 𞋴𝛂𝛋𝛆@lemmy.world
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          This just in, murder party now endorses re-

  • 5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Subtle lesbian pride pins imply the existence of flagrant or direct lesbian pride pins

    • alx
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      okay i’m listening.

    • Broadfern@lemmy.world
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      “I’m lesbian and I’m proud” in a nice enamel setting would be pretty direct, yeah?

      • rhadamanth_nemes@lemmy.world
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        “Fuck you! (as long as you are also a lady)”

  • fahfahfahfah@lemmy.billiam.net
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    Isn’t scissoring something that porn basically made up and no real-world lesbians actually do?

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      My understanding (as a poly guy with a penis and many lesbian friends) is that Vag on Vag scissoring is not really viable, and nothing more than a novelty. But mutual vag to thigh, which also looks like scissors, is quite a good time but not like the number one first thing you’d go for. If you look closely at the pin, it looks like the latter more than the former.

      • fahfahfahfah@lemmy.billiam.net
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        Ahhh okay that makes sense

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      I dont think porn made it up? (Obviously real life lesbian sex looks absolutely nothing like porn because that porn is designed for men)

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        What? Is it all lies!

        scary movie

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          Lol wtf is this gif

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            A scene from Scary Movie 5

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              They made a fifth?

              Edit: there’s a sixth one in the works, who is watching them? (I’m sorry that sounds judgy, I fucking love the step up movies, so I’m not one to talk)

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                FYI, there is a new Final Destination film out …

                • TexasDrunk@lemmy.world
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                  When the fuck are they planning on getting to that destination?

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      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tribadism

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      While “tribadism” (old term for various lesbian sexual positions, including scissoring) has been known since antiquity, scissoring itself has only been distinguished from other lesbian sexual positions in several sexologist studies in the 70s. Its prevalence was heavily debated even back then, but there was little doubt about its existence before the emergence of modern porn.

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    Y’all have no idea how oblivious the cis gets can be

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    Subtle, just like bezo’s dick rocket

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