In my experience that doesn’t usually happen, instead they simply see the daughter as another piece of property theirs to control (which is often framed as “protect”), and draw validation of their (toxic) masculinity from (making themselves feel like “big men” by threatening to harm any guy who comes near her for example).
I don’t know how they did it, but the channel has managed to create a very wholesome community for deprogramming people on the far right. I highly recommend them!
I don’t really watch much yt (E: but it’s always good to have decent recommendations to make to those who do), but I’ll give them a look, definitely made a good first impression 👍
I’ll second the recommendation, Belle (the guy in that video is Beau who used to run the channel) does a great job. Also just really good coverage of current events.
Sadly this isn’t always the case, there’s often a deeply incestuous vibe (and sometimes more than that) to that kind of ownership some men take of their daughters (I don’t really feel like looking through the results for this search right now, but I remember several images of men wearing t shirts saying shit like “the only one who gets to touch my daughter is me” and creepy shit like that).
There are so many different layers of fucked up to a relationship between a misogynistic man and his daughter., it really is so unfortunate, but it’s just one more way in which the patriarchy maintains itself.
Not in every case, but often, the phrase “emotional incest” applies. This is when a parent treats their child the same they would a partner or potential partner. Ask me why I know about it lol
In my experience that doesn’t usually happen, instead they simply see the daughter as another piece of property theirs to control (which is often framed as “protect”), and draw validation of their (toxic) masculinity from (making themselves feel like “big men” by threatening to harm any guy who comes near her for example).
This is my favorite video to help deprogram these people
While I hate living in the south there are some really cool people here. Like this dude. Thanks for sharing.
That was good, as are many of the yt comments, which is unusual lol, thanks for sharing
I don’t know how they did it, but the channel has managed to create a very wholesome community for deprogramming people on the far right. I highly recommend them!
I don’t really watch much yt (E: but it’s always good to have decent recommendations to make to those who do), but I’ll give them a look, definitely made a good first impression 👍
I’ll second the recommendation, Belle (the guy in that video is Beau who used to run the channel) does a great job. Also just really good coverage of current events.
yeah, they can only ever imagine wanting to protect a woman they don’t want to sleep with, quite funny.
Sadly this isn’t always the case, there’s often a deeply incestuous vibe (and sometimes more than that) to that kind of ownership some men take of their daughters (I don’t really feel like looking through the results for this search right now, but I remember several images of men wearing t shirts saying shit like “the only one who gets to touch my daughter is me” and creepy shit like that).
There are so many different layers of fucked up to a relationship between a misogynistic man and his daughter., it really is so unfortunate, but it’s just one more way in which the patriarchy maintains itself.
Those purity ring things with dads freaks me out too. Fucking weird.
Oh yeah, those things are creepy as fuck…
Not in every case, but often, the phrase “emotional incest” applies. This is when a parent treats their child the same they would a partner or potential partner. Ask me why I know about it lol
Yup. And sorry to hear you know from personal experience… Sending you a virtual hug.
There are those creepy as fuck groups where the daughters have to pledge their virginity to their fathers, too.