As an aro/ace I’m faced with the opposite. How can I truly know that something isn’t there. Though these days I’ve mostly accepted that I can be pretty sure after 30 years of existing. And if it turns out another wayat some point, then so be it. The label doesn’t define who I am, who I am defines the label
For me my favorite is the, “Maybe I’m actually gay and in denial?” Which quickly flips to, “Maybe I’m actually straight and in denial?”
Ah the bi-cycle, how I love and hate it. It’s my life though so meh, the party will continue. Lol
As an aro/ace I’m faced with the opposite. How can I truly know that something isn’t there. Though these days I’ve mostly accepted that I can be pretty sure after 30 years of existing. And if it turns out another wayat some point, then so be it. The label doesn’t define who I am, who I am defines the label
“An aggressive commitment to non-commitment” pretty well describes all the bisexuals I know, so you’re in good company at least