• grysbok@lemmy.sdf.org
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    Plus, sometimes you don’t want to teach your therapist about stuff. Like, hypothetically my current therapist would know what an ace polyamorous furry kinkster is; I wouldn’t need to define any of those terms. This makes it much easier to talk about my friends and relationships without getting sidetracked.

    Oh, and I’ve fired a physician that tried too hard to get me to talk to my mom, even after I pushed back. New physician was very understanding. I think queer folk are more likely to understand that relatives aren’t always family.

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      Yeah, even my old one who was listed as being queer friendly I had to educate on trans issues and not saying things like “full women”

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        Oof.

        I guess they were friendly in the same way a boisterous German shepherd puppy is friendly: means well, but not a good playmate for my tiny arthritic senior dog.

        (He’s snoring in my clean laundry and it’s adorable.)