• ruplicant@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    can some one explain me what do these “tops” and “bottoms” that I’m seeing all over mean? are they actually about sexual positions and attitudes like “subs” and “doms”??

    • WillStealYourUsernameOPM
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      nah. It’s related but not the same! A bottom is a receiver and a top is a giver so to speak. A dom is in charge and a sub is submissive, as the names imply. You can have a dom bottom or a sub top etc.