All you need to do is sit back and watch. With the occasional rare exception, most everyone I’ve ever seen try is middling to just awful at “picking up” girls.

Plus, a lot of the time, we’re talking about the social equivalent of a “cold call.” You’re a complete stranger selling something they didn’t even ask for. So… don’t! Take some time and integrate to a social group or two (if you can). Become a familiar face. Things happen much more fluidly on referral anyway.