• Estradiol Enjoyer
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    except for the racism play part this kinda describes my latina GF so yeah accurate and heterosexual most likely

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    Sounds about right. In my later days I tried explaining my unique tastes to my religrous parents only because they eventually came over every day and my lifestlye was all over the house. They couldnt handle it and kept digging and finding reasons to shun me. They always did thtt, looking for things they cant handle. Then they start trying to convert me to a lame christian lifestyle again in my adulthood. Like they want a conservatorship when they invaded a life perfectly fine without them knowing.

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      Then they start trying to convert me to a lame christian lifestyle again in my adulthood.

      My parents gave that up decades ago when every single time they brought up religion, I would tire them out with questions they could never answer. I think they realized that they were accomplishing nothing, and maybe even hurting their own faith in the process lol

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    Hopeless from the beginning. Conservatives can’t keep you from being who you’re supposed to be, only delay it.

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    Parents: “You should be punished for having romantic feelings and a sense of independence”

    Me: “I reflexively and ritualistically punish myself whenever I’m feeling romantic or pursuing independence”

    Nah. Nothing here that I can see.

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      I’m not saying everyone raised catholic wants a partner who dresses like a nun and makes you call them Mother Superior, but I am saying those are the ones I hang out with

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        I don’t really think we need to manufacture any more. The way I see it, there’s already a natural surplus of bottoms.

        • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
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          It truly is a tops world. I can be verse but I prefer to top because I get way to much anxiety when people are down there. The gay hookup apps are a insatiable black hole of thirst in my area.

          Intercourse isn’t even required for me. I’d rather do mutual oral, make out and give forehead kisses. But I am a people pleaser.

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    No anon, you became who you were meant to be in spite of your parents. You just be careful about it, ok?

    Is what I would say if op was anon, but op isn’t anon so obviously the whole thing is fake and gay (which I’d like to remind everyone is not a bad thing).

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      Its definitely true and there’s a lot of correlation between sexual assault/misconduct and repression though doing science here is obviously really hard so all I can share is some personal anecdotes.

      I see a lot of sex tourists here in Thailand (and Vietnam where I lived previously) from repressed countries like middle east region and India and its scary how badly these people are behaving to the point where they are banned from many sex avenues. I had a fried who basically was a Islam virgin and a complete sexual retard and obviously very promiscuous when detached from that until he managed to grow up in a year or two.

      Religious sexual repression is scary. My pet theory is that middle east problems would be solved if every dude was just handed a pocket pussy when they turn 16 lol

      I know my comment isn’t directly about catholicism but its the same thing no matter which religion is enforcing the repression.

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        Religious sexual repression is scary. My pet theory is that middle east problems would be solved if every dude was just handed a pocket pussy when they turn 16 lol

        How will that solve being invaded and meddled with for oil and trade routes?

        Or 2000 years ago, being invaded and meddled with for frankincense and trade routes?

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          Because it takes a special psychological state for people to contribute to these actions. Sexual repression highly contributes to creating such mental states.

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            I don’t think the Greek and Roman pagans were known for sexual repression and yet they engaged in wars and conquests, including of the Middle East and Arabia. Neither were the Arab pagans they conquered and invaded. It has always been about resources and access to them.

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                So what you claim is that people resist invasions only because they are sexually repressed? Is that what’s happening in Ukraine?

                Somehow you are capable of understanding fighting back against invaders when it is the Ukrainians but not when it is Arabs or Afghans. I wonder why?

                Some people are victims of their geography, that’s it.

                PS: it is called proof by contradiction, not a strawperson.

                PSS: nothing changed in 2000 years, just replace Rome with the USA and frankincense with oil

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                  What are you even talking about. You’re so far off topic you might as well just go take a nap bro

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          2000 years ago would’ve been the Romans, Christianity much less Catholicism simply didn’t exist at that time. And I think Morocco conquered Andalusia before the crusades. By like 400 years.

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      My Catholic friend had most pleasure removed from sex. He doesn’t see it as filthy or sinful, but is very nervous by the prospect of disease and pregnancy. He still enjoys having sex because his partners have loved it, and he likes making them happy.

      It’s more of a game of how quickly/often he can make them climax. For him it is just kind of boring and getting in the way of sleeping/cuddling which he finds much more pleasant.

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      I think, as with most things, it’s a continuum. On one end, they are pretty chill and at the other end are the extremists that are convinced exposed shoulders will instantly corrupt anyone with a penis.