If you’re looking for a good online place in the US, peepshowtoys.com has been the best place for conventional toys for me. They only carry actually body safe stuff

Ok, I’m going to step up to the plate here. I’m an experienced butt stuffer. There are two main safety concerns – having your body move things further in than you can retrieve, and unsafe materials giving you ass cancer.

You’ve probably heard the adage, without a base, without a trace. In essence, your pelvic floor muscles will move objects around without you being aware or being able to stop it, and it can make things very difficult to retrieve. Your rectum is actually split into two by a muscle known as the inner band, which technically isn’t a sphincter but is in practicality. When we squeeze stuff out, we’re compressing the bottom half, squeezing the band and loosening the anus to push stuff out. If something untethered or without a base makes it’s way into the upper half, you’re not just going to be able to squeeze it out like when you shit, it’s in the wrong place for that. You’re in for an anxious fishing trip or wait, or a very embarrassing er trip. And this movement isn’t something that happens by accident, your rectum actively moves stuff back up if it’s not expelled.

Second, material safety. In the US, it’s perfectly legal to sell toys that aren’t body safe. I don’t recommend plastic for anal use at all. Silicone is safe, but it has to be platinum cure or medical grade. These use platinum as part of the silicone curing process and is incredibly resistant to breaking down, which tin cure silicone will do. So, even a silicone egg with a tether might not be safe for butt use.

Ultimately, I honestly don’t think vibrating butt toys are all that great. I highly recommend getting a “big” (large as you can fit) squishy plug like a square peg egg plug or a topped toys gape keeper and doing kegel exercises with it in. That’s been far better for prostate stimulation in my experience.

I wonder what they watched, I just think about my life for the same effect

As it turns out, I think I’m hung =/ I’ve only hooked up with 3 guys but I have a much bigger dick than they did. Kind of a shame, cause I don’t like to use it and it’s wasted on me

I don’t think being trans is being inherently damaged. I am inherently a broken person, but not because of being trans

I feel like I’m incapable of doing anything and am an utter failure of a human being. Doing nothing all the time is best to be avoided, take my word for it

Too masc for straight guys and gay girls, too fem for gay guys

Not that it matters, I’m not meeting anyone anyways

For me that descends into suicidal ideation. I’m just so tired, I don’t want to nonstop fill the stimulation void on me any more, I can’t stand the thought of jumping from novel interest to novel interest always trying to stay one step ahead of the expanding void in me, I’m tired of putting so much effort into a life I don’t want to live

Yeah but does the head have less mass. Faster isn’t necessarily more powerful, having a vibe that’s rumbly instead of buzzy is generally desired (both from what I hear about clit stim and my own prostate experiences)

If you’ve never had a butt stuffing or jerking sesh that’s gone for hours you’re missing put

Fish!

Same

Ok? Not even close. Safe? Probably. I’m good at choosing not to kill myself, it’s a decision I make a lot

It’s also accurate in that I’m about to drop it off an 8 story building cause it won’t fucking work right

Thankfully now I can be mostly asleep for 15ish hours, it was hell when I would go to bed at 7 to avoid existence and would wake up at 3

I should really just unalive myself and get it over with, things are worse than when I started drugs and therapy and there’s no way things are going to get better. Things don’t improve unless you improve them and I’ve tried and failed over and over

When you go to bed because the alternative is trying to force yourself to do things you once enjoyed to kill time

When you get into bed at 7 pm and don’t manage to get out of it till 11 am

When you don’t feel hungry but you haven’t eaten in a day or two and you know you should and people would want you to but you can’t bring yourself to go make or get it and not eating feels satisfyingly self destructive

sorry to be the one to break it to you

Take a quick look through my post history

gives up and goes to bed even though it’s 7pm and I haven’t eaten yet today

I want to hibernate forever but my friends won’t let me=/