Lemmy.world is worse than fucking reddit was with gender relations lmfao

I personally don’t have a problem with it used in the context of hentai, to me it seems distinct from trans as a concept/character trait/genre/however you want to phrase it. That said, it’s gross if you use it to refer to a person. I honestly have the same opinion with the 4 letter t word. I know others are bothered a lot more by these terms than I am, so I don’t use them in public online spaces, especially trans oriented ones, but still use them when talking about porn with people in porn contexts in private or in hentai oriented spaces. Not that they ever really come up in public conversation on a way that would make it context appropriate, only really conversations like this.

Again, to be clear, using these terms not just addressing real people but using them in a context implying trans people are those things is disgusting.

Reminds me of someone changing the labels on a bathroom lock to poop alone vs poop with friends lol

Chairman of the Federal Department of Cum Guzzling

I dunno something gay

I don’t have to imagine it

No, get in me lol

I don’t know how you have the energy to keep trying to educate people who don’t want to understand! Massively respect you

I doubt anyone taking all that wants to see the next day

He had a stroke and got brain damaged. Literally.

Customer data

If I start hoping, it’s just gonna make everything hurt more

Better than nothing 🤷‍♀️

Feeling powerless and useless and shitty and need to do something to make the world a more positive place, no matter how tiny. I cast big squishy trans pride silicone six sided dice and gave them away at a board game convention and the happiness that brought some people is one of the things keeping me alive tbh, more literally than most people would like to know about.

Proto kullervo would be neato

Oooo congrats!

Thanks, the sanitization of the internet is really driving me crazy. Not worth complaining about but I’m happy you made this and will be something I’ll try to do in the future

“We do what small things we can” gang

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Worthy? I can accept that. The problem is my presence in someone’s life would only make theirs worse. Well it would be a problem if I were capable of seeking out a relationship which I’m not. Not even comfortable with hookups anymore. Accepted that love, affection, and intimacy just aren’t for me.

Hypothetical question for you. If she behaved like that when you first met her, would you want to date her? It sounds like she’s no longer interested in you but isn’t comfortable breaking it off or doesn’t even really realize it herself. I’m not a good person for giving advice, so I won’t, but ask yourself if your relationship with her is something you really want to continue.