Someone already gave you a good answer but I thought I’d chime in with some word association–its the same vibe as someone with a fetish for a certain race
Hahahaha I’m kinda in the “uncomfortable having sexual thoughts about women” gang because of taking a lot of “all men are rapists” messaging to heart as a male teenager, so no
Love me some boysmell though
That is one of the reasons I haven’t killed myself yet
Not voting as it’s not my instance, just popping in to commend you on community focused decision making
I’ve just accepted that that’s never going to be something I can do and that existence is pointless and miserable and I’m not capable of doing anything more than killing time till I die
Ada, thank you for everything you do and for being a reasonable, levelheaded empathetic human being
Everything’s fucked and it just keeps getting worse, accelerating.
Being referred to as the gender you are isn’t a privilege for good behavior. She’s a fucking despicable piece of shit, but your attitude about misgendering is pretty gross to me.
I honestly think Ada does the job amazingly, whenever someone starts stirring drama about something she’s done I look at what they’re talking about and it’s something that, while I might not have done that action personally I’d I were in the same spot, I can absolutely understand why she did it and am fine with it.
Drags a dickhole but if people didn’t get upset about him he would have had no power, that’s how shit stirrers work. how hard is it to just use a singular they rather than giving them what they wanted…
Honestly Ada is hilariously minimally involved, mods being like “we don’t like the admin enforcing the instance rules so we’re gonna make everyone move to .world!” And then users replying “lmao fuck off we like it here and you can’t make us go anywhere”
Not much point to a collar you forget is there