Please lmk if this hurts any feelings. Just saying, you could disarm me like this.
Now that I think of it, my dating history includes both a gay guy and a lesbian. I wonder if I qualify as a femboy in some abstract sense of the word?
Not replying directly to the post itself but the second paragraph sounds like you are thinking about your gender label. If calling yourself a femboy feels right to you, then you are one. If you think that you would like to be a femboy but that you aren’t quite there, it is possible to change things in various different ways. You can do that with any gender really, as well as taking steps to be perceived that way by yourself and others who see you. Ultimately, nobody else is the qualifier as to who you are than you.
