i feel so bad, they (19nb) had a bf already but they liked me too and tried to pursue me when his bf didn’t give confirmation. then they felt bad and stopped talking to me as much, because they couldn’t hang out w/o him knowing.
because they liked me, they made me feel loved and would say they were gonna do all these romantic things with me, until they broke up today because their bf didn’t like it. and he doesn’t understand why i’m upset because “i liked him first! i liked him before you, he’s my first choice!!” idc. ik you’re dating, that’s not why i’m upset, and you don’t have to keep talking abt your bf whenever i mention something. i know.
I mean, you definitely dodged the bullet. Anyone thinking that is an acceptable way to treat someone else is not going to be a good partner at all, to anyone.
Nothing inherently wrong with open relationships or similar options. But you don’t misrepresent your intent. Serious douchebaggery, that is.