To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

Growing up in the 90’s, the “minimum acceptable” tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I’ve heard these days it’s not unusual to tip up to 40%!

What do you usually do?

    • 𝚝𝚛𝚔@aussie.zone
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      1 month ago

      They’re trying to make it a thing here. I refuse to participate.

      I’m paying for a menu that has your decent wage built in already, I’m not gifting free money on top for just… doing your job?

      Also wtf servers in places that do tip… you turn my words in to an entry in a tablet (or perhaps a piece of paper), then carry the food that other people created / prepared / transported / cooked all of 30 steps from the kitchen to my table and expect 20% of the bill? Insanity.

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    2 months ago

    I was going to answer, but then you clarified on the body of your post that you only wanted answers from people in the US, lol

  • nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    i live in vietnam. it’s a poor country. but restaurant workers here get paid in money, so they don’t need to work for gratuity. it would be strange or insulting if you tried to give extra money to the staff.

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    2 months ago

    Zero. I believe that the negotiations of an employee’s market value are between the employee and their employer. I don’t believe that it is my responsibility to charitably subsidize a company through the subsidization of their employees’ wages.

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      Your choice not to tip will make no difference to the company, but every difference to a person who suffers through customer service for a living.

      “I don’t want to subsidize a company” is just you inventing a convenient way to justify what is essentially theft. Why stop at not tipping? You could probably get away with stealing IDK, playground equipment too.

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          At least in the US, tipping is the accepted way that we compensate certain people for their time.

          If you habitually never tip, you are not paying for the service that you receive in good faith. This is theft of service.

          If you don’t like tipping, patronize places that include the tip in the bill. Tell restaurant owners to change their pay structure to avoid it. It won’t be changed by you individually shirking your obligation to pay.

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            Oh no I’m such a thief ahah don’t call the popo. I pay the service and products when I pay the bill with the agreed prices. If US companies are so broke and poor that they can’t even pay their people, they should close. I don’t beg for money when I work, disgusting.

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    When I have been in the us I used to tip around 15%. Accepted that as a weirdness of the us.

    On my home country tipping is just weird and unheard of, so 0%.

    Edit: last time I was in the us was like 15 years ago.

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    in Canada, usually 15%, if the service is outstanding or i’m a regular I’ll tip 20%

  • xmunk@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    15% flat always. Canada has sadly embraced tipping culture so I’ll not deny anyone the going rate or judge them at their workplace - but Vancouver is also expensive as fuck and anything over 15% starts putting meals close to the 100$ mark.

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      Don’t pay it. In Australia they’re trying, and I remind them they get paid well, get paid overtime, get paid a pension, and get paid more to take holidays. After being paid all that, why is the shitty machine prompting a tip?

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    Typically 20-25 at a restaurant. I’m not a fan of tipping for transactions where I’m not served. I only tip when someone does something.

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    Growing up, and even after working in foodservice, I was always told to tip at least 20% (almost) regardless of service.

    There’s been maybe two times I didn’t tip 20% and the lower tip was definitely earned.

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    15-25% usually 20%. I have worked for tips so I get it.

    My wife tipped 25% at an ice cream parlor last night. Which I thought was ridiculous considering he just pulled three pints out of a freezer behind him.

    It’s too many places now.

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    1 month ago

    Americans: “I don’t care how bad the service is, you HAVE to tip a minimum amount.”

    Also Americans: “My experience at the DMV was bad. Fire all government employees!”

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    15% typically, more if it warrants it. Food keeps getting more expensive, so the percentage doesn’t have to go up.