The mom says that Autumn has never dyed her hair; the color of her braids best matches her natural color.

Naturally lighter hair while black: a fireable offense

  • Othello [comrade/them, love/loves]@hexbear.net
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    have they never seen a biracial person on tv? like? poor kid, when I was 16 i got black box braids and I felt great until my boss started calling me the predator and tried to make all of my coworkers call me the predator instead of my name.

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        oh yeah he sucked. he was the head manager and his dad was the owner. I think he was attracted to me because all my male coworkers kept saying he was, but he was so mean all the time to me in particular so idk. don’t worry I no one besides him called me that, but it was super damaging to my young self esteem. I felt better by calling him a virgin and all my coworkers went “ooooooohhh” fun times (problematic to make fun of someone for being a virgin in retrospect I know). would you believe i left that workplace because he wouldn’t do anything when a coworker was sexually harassing me?

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      Yeah at ex model c all girls high schools in South Africa there were major issues around black girls hair. Even led to full on protests because of how racist these schools were. I remember meeting someone at university detail how they were forced to put chemicals in their hair to straighten it while at one of these schools. But I think the protests led to a change in hair and uniform policy, so at least something happened.

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        so nice that the girls changed things. sadly hair is extremely politicized everywhere. and just 15 year ago relaxed hair (chemically straighten) was the norm. but than the natural hair movement happened and now its a huge generational divide. I will always be against relaxers because they double your risk of certain types of cancer. My first major act of teen rebellion was cutting off my relaxed hair with kitchen scissors when i was 15. I used to have constant oozing sores on my head from the relaxer. my mother was so pissed she called every family member to tell them i looked homeless. I told her I “was no longer conforming to the eurocentric patriarchy beauty standards” and she said “I dont know what that means, you look ridiculous”. I have a 10000 hair stories, people coming up to me and petting me without saying a word, a BLACK boss making me cover my natural hair because i was trying to start locs, so much so that some of my Muslim customers assumed I was Muslim but I never denied it because that was too awkward, like 5 diffrent white toddlers have pointed to my hair and asked “whats that” back in my babysitting for rich people days.

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            i mean in in America so ya know… but yeah I love my natural hair, it took many years to learn how to take care of especially when I had no money and no coping mechanisms for burnout. but its now down to my collar bone! and best of all I have a partner how has learned to do my hair so im always looking cute! and i now wear lots of mens styles which are way cheaper to get done professionally. life is good. also natural hair is weirdly common with black professors ive had. so thats nice whenever go to grad school. Ive heard south africa is having its own natural hair movement. I wish I lived somewhere like cuba where the government was invested in promoting black natural hair.

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              also natural hair is weirdly common with black professors ive had

              The three most legit genuine comrade professors I’ve ever known in college were all black and they all had natural hair (to be fair one had quite a receded hairline). One marched with MLK. One even rocked an Angela Davis style afro.

              I will never forget when I first learned about what the Protestant Work Ethic was and its ties to American Civic Religion and Calvinism for that matter. It took that long to teach me what I should had known in my teens.

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                yeah I think natural hair (whether people like it or not) says a lot about you. it usually says your cool! so cool to meet the one who marched with mlk!! angela davis was my nickname in college for a bit, due to my large afro and you know being a communist lol.

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      It’s a suburb of the largest city in North Carolina. This manager has 100% seen a biracial person in person, they’re just racist.

      Charlotte, and it’s surrounding area, have rich white car dealership and restaurant franchise owner vibes. Totally rancid lol.

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      Their issue wasn’t the hairstyle but blonde hair on someone with dark skin. Apparently it’s “unnatural”. Growing up mixed race black in the US, you run into this with a certain type of person. Evidence of misagination really bothers them.

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        Yeah that also happens in South Africa, especially towards the coloured community here.(Not a racial slur in South Africa, it’s it’s own culture/ethnicity and many people self identify with the term). Some really vile stuff gets said towards them.

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    In the article, it says they invited her to return to work after they realized the rule had been misinterpreted. The absolute gall. Of course she doesn’t want to work with those fuckers! They’ve made it very clear how they see her, but now in their generosity they’re going to offer her job back. I’m glad she’s exploring her legal options instead.

  • Except in very particular situations (Actors… that’s pretty much it) I don’t think employers should be allowed to have literally any opinion on your appearance past like, “don’t literally be covered in dirt.”

    To be honest, interviews should be blind with fake names and voice modulators. On top of the obvious sex and race reasons that you shouldn’t be allowed to discriminate, I don’t think employers should be allowed to ban things like piercings, tattoos, dyed hair, weird hairstyles, etc.

    Obviously you shouldn’t be allowed to fire a black girl for having light hair, but I don’t think you should be allowed to fire someone for having a green Mohawk and a septum ring either. Fuck off, it’s none of your business.

  • Fuck this company and their terrible bland food too. We’ve had some pop up where I live in the past few years and the place legit causes traffic jams because of all the grillman suburbanite slobs in their tank sized SUV’s lining up for their slop. Then every other week we learn about how yet another manager there is a bigot. I remember when libs were running defense for the company when the ghoul who owns it was revealed to be a homophobe. Their refrain was always “oh his views aren’t policy or the views of the people who work there”. What kind of people do you think he hired? And what kind of people do you think he encouraged his underlings to hire? You think there might be a connection between who he is and the fact that you can’t make it through the drive through there without another news article like this dropping?

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      What kind of people do you think he hired? And what kind of people do you think he encouraged his underlings to hire

      and the whole ‘closed on sunday’ means even normal scumbag capitalists avoid the business, only christfreaks, and the specific kind who want to murder lgbt people are going to be franchisers of a joint like that

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        they make those kids stand outside in the florida heat with zero sun protection

        it should be an executable offense to expose workers to that level of potential harm (sun, heat, vehicle exhaust, risk of getting run over), let alone children

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      Shit is pathetic and with inflation prices they all just look like addicts now. Like Chik Fil A drive thru in 2023 is a methadone clinic for food issues.

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    Fucking so sick of the unending hatred of old white men in this country. It’s in my face every single fucking day of my life and I’m so over it. This girl is incredibly beautiful and it’s so obvious it was about her race. FUCK

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      Fam, this is hexbear turf. You don’t need to prevaricate when calling racism out. Any chud gets in here to froth at us he’s gonna get bullied then promptly banned

      frothingfash ban-hammer

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    This is pretty common and goes beyond just the color of your hair, the majority of states still don’t have discrimination protections specifically for protective hairstyles like braids, locs, cornrows, afros, etc. And, even in states that do, they obviously just front it as something else; my friend works in NY state (which banned protective hairstyle discrimination in 2019) and has a coworker who was sent home after coming to work with locs with red highlights. Employer claimed they only had issue with the red highlights, but I’m sure they obviously saw the locs on their own as “unprofessional”

    A workplace study this year found one-fifth of Black women aged 25-34 have been sent home from work because of their hair. Two-thirds of BW also reported changing their hair for an interview

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    Fun fact: a female person with that hair colour is a blonde, while a male would be a blond.