Dragonfruit

She/her but like in a cis man way, you know?

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  • I don’t think it’s necessarily transphobic, but I also don’t think you would still have that view if you had seen more trans men. You say you see them as “female-bodied”, but some of the most insanely masculine looking men I have ever seen have been trans.

    I remember I used to think I wasn’t attracted to trans women for similar reasons and then I met more and started watching a few on youtube and instantly realized like “oh wait they are just normal women they look like women and act like women why wouldn’t i be attracted to them” (which was then quickly followed by “oh wait i’m a trans woman”, but that’s a separate issue)














  • Please, just listen to trans people’s experiences so you can understand what you’re actually talking about. You can’t just try to take away people’s medical treatment because you don’t understand why they need it.

    As a probably-trans-but-still-questioning person, I can promise you that no one was “teaching” me to be uncomfortable with my gender when I was a kid.

    (Also, it’s important to point out that a lot of what you’re complaining about is not real treatments that are done. No one does gender affirming surgery on kids. And puberty blockers have been safely used on cis kids for decades so unless you want to take them away from them too, it’s not about how you think they’re dangerous, it’s about hurting trans people)