I affirm trans people’s existence. As someone who lacks empathy, I honestly don’t care about trans rights, nor the suffering they faced, but I know it’s bad and that they’re people too. I don’t see a reason to discriminate, so I don’t.

I don’t deadname. I use the correct pronouns. I’m just only romantically, sexually attracted to, and would only go out with cis men.

I wouldn’t date a trans man with lady parts because of his lady parts. I like man parts. I wouldn’t date a trans man with surgery because he’s female-bodied (I’m simply not attracted to trans men).

I wouldn’t date a trans woman because she’s a woman, though I might like her man parts if she still has them.

I wouldn’t date a cis woman because I’m not attracted to cis women, nor would I have sex or date either of the identified people.

I like masculine parts with a male body. If I meet the right one, I may be bicurious and date women (cis). I like the attention, compliments, and closeness of a woman, so I say I’m bi, but I only really see men as dating material.

  • DragonfruitEnglish
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    6 hours ago

    I don’t think it’s necessarily transphobic, but I also don’t think you would still have that view if you had seen more trans men. You say you see them as “female-bodied”, but some of the most insanely masculine looking men I have ever seen have been trans.

    I remember I used to think I wasn’t attracted to trans women for similar reasons and then I met more and started watching a few on youtube and instantly realized like “oh wait they are just normal women they look like women and act like women why wouldn’t i be attracted to them” (which was then quickly followed by “oh wait i’m a trans woman”, but that’s a separate issue)