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Cake day: July 5th, 2023

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  • Thanks for the advice!

    We try to be super open about all of this. I think a big point is that she recognizes and understands and supports my transition, but she’s nervous she will be less attracted to me later and wants to explore how much of a possibility she really might be into women, but cannot see herself doing a one night stand situation, so we’re a bit stumped on “how do we figure it out without actually having sex?” situation? Idk if it’s even possible, just fishing for ideas for something I’m probably missing.











  • Hey! I don’t have much for advice, but I want to say you are so not alone! Almost 2 years ago I was in almost the same exact boat. It did take me longer to get comfortable with the idea I am trans and what to do with it, and my kids were a bit younger, but same! Same concerns.

    My wife was also very hesitant, but came around to loving me for me and well see how the changes go. I haven’t done anything too drastic yet, (neurodivergent tendencies make me stupid cautious and very slow to change) but I’m super interested in HRT. That alone was difficult to actually admit to myself.

    Idk where exactly I wanted to go with this other than let you know others have gone through almost the exact same scenario.

    Also put together a bit after figuring myself out, “oh shit!” one of my kids might be too!