• Lorindól
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      A few years ago I regularly took the same morning bus to work. There was this maybe 16-17 year old kid who sat on the back and would listen obnoxious rap at full volume on his phone, while hogging the whole seat row with his stuff.

      I had my headphones on but the hideous rap blared so loud I couldn’t hear anything else. In my country we rarely interfere with other people’s business, everyone was just sitting tight looking pissed off.

      After few minutes I stood up, walked to the kid and told him to either turn that shit off, use headphones like everyone else or I’d throw his phone out at the next stop. He looked at me for a moment completely dumbfounded but turned the noise off and left the bus at the next stop.

      He never took the same bus again.

        • Lorindól
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          I strongly dislike rap in general, but this horror was something that was probably home made by the kid himself or his friends. All I remember about the “lyrics” was that they involved some kind of rape fantasy.

          That was the breaking point for me.

      • mrnotoriousman
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        And the whole bus stood up and clapped! An old lady came up and gave you a hug and a $100 bill too

        • @NathanUp@lemmy.ml
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          These things happen! I have a similar story. People often just rely on the bystander effect to let them get away with anti-social behavior; sometimes when something is done about it the confrontation shocks them so much they don’t put up a fight.

        • AnnaWright@threads.net
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          No, what? Don’t be creepy about it. Just snap their picture and run it through pimeyes to find their address and live in their walls for a few years to observe their schedule and fears. Maybe replace all of their clothes with identical versions a single size larger and put an irritant in their bodywash to give them reason to question whether they’ve dropped weight due to a terminal illness, then complete their existence as they sleep and, as hard as it may be, platonically collect their eyelashes for your album. Just don’t be creepy.

    • @corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca
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      euthanized

      You write " forced to listen to accordion covers of operas played at a volume so it competes against the TVs playing the HeadOn commercial in Portuguese backwards in a loop" funny, but I get it.

    • @Empricorn@feddit.nl
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      I’m gonna add people that use speakerphone in public to that last. Just today I witnessed a dude at a Starbucks speaking loudly because he had his phone sitting on the table in front of him. Nothing in his hands, just wanted to disturb everyone, apparently…

  • @RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
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    Meh. People watch stuff on public transportation, airplanes, or wherever without headphones. It’s maddening. I don’t care what the content is. They’re just being assholes.

    The flipping thru media? Shit, look at the age of some of the people creating the “content” (I use that word loosely, the vapid and shallow garbage that consumes the majority of bandwidth is devoid of anything worthy of being called content). There’s a huge span of ages, from millennials to tweens generating the noise. Everyone shouting as loud as they can for views. Heck, even if you’re a conservative ass boomer there’s content for you, how does anyone think all these bullshit Q and pizza parlor pedo shit gets spread around.

    Anyway, point being…it’s not the generation being an asshole watching the stuff loudly in public space, there’s plenty of assholes doing it. Just the kind of media they’re blasting is different by age.

      • IDK, I remember kids blasting boom boxes in the 90s, and others would listen to headphones around their neck with the cans turned out so others can hear their music. It’s not new, people just suck.

  • themeatbridge
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    Counterpoint:

    I got on the bus today, and there was this grumpy old guy complaining loudly to the lady in front of him about pronouns.
    She was clearly trying to ignore him by pretending to read a book.
    He looked up at me and scowled, but he stopped talking.
    So I sat down next to him and opened TikTok.
    He couldn’t help but be nosy and was staring at my phone, so I picked the most obnoxious videos.
    Each time he would show interest, I would flip to the next one.
    I’m sure it was annoying, but at least he shut the fuck up for the rest of the ride.

  • Franklin
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    All right everyone it’s time for an old person check!

    If you identify with this meme you might be old!

    it’s important for you to recognize every generation was cringe because life is cringe. It’s a little part of growing up, try to be kind to those around you even if they’re younger.

    • @Koike@sh.itjust.works
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      Not really about generations, it’s more about manners, anyone blasting shit around people who never asked for anything deserve a kick in the groin. Bonus kicks for people ruining the calm in a natural landscape.

      • Kata1yst
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        Agreed. Every generation is chock full of idiots, just basic math. Two generations ago this would have been an idiot blasting his boombox on the bus.

      • Franklin
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        But this post explicitly defines the situation in terms of their generation not their attitude, separating the two changes the context and my response was to the context.

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        If it’s not about generations then why is a specific generation mentioned in the post, title, and pretty much half of the comments?

        Also, natural landscape? This is on a bus

        This post is an excuse to get mad at a stereotype of young people.

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          Yeah, the people saying it’s “not about the generation” are coping because they don’t want to admit it’s tribalism.

          This post didn’t have to mention the generation and most certainly did not have to put it in framing that perported it was the reason they behaved like that.

          People in these comments don’t understand how close they are to the “millennials are the problem with x posts”

      • Smorty [she/her]
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        I am 18 any almost all my friends consume this type of media at a rapid pace. This is not really an -old people hate youngsters thing, what these consumers are dou g is simply not okay (specifically the unreasonably loud tiktoks, without headphones obv)

    • @Squirrel@thelemmy.club
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      Agreed, but listening to anything in a public setting without headphones is a shitty thing to do. It was when I was a kid with a Gameboy or Walkman, and it still is now with tiktok.

    • @CaptainEffort@sh.itjust.works
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      Being annoyed by someone blaring their phone’s volume in public isn’t an age thing. It always has been, and always will be fucking obnoxious.

      And I say that as someone who’s literally in Gen Z.

      • Franklin
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        It is when you define it as being because they’re gen z, my issue was with saying it was because of their generation.

    • @1995ToyotaCorolla@lemmy.world
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      115 months ago

      I remember kids in my class randomly shouting “Waffles!” or “this is a spork!” Because lol so random xd

      Kids so obsessed with invader zim that they acted like him in real life

      Also l33t sp33k being cool for a minute and “the narwhal bacons at midnight”at the peak of Reddit popularity

      The whole gangam style craze. I went to a wedding held in a barn and everyone did the gangam style

      People saying “epic fail” all the time

      This is just what I can remember off the top of my head, but I think you get the point. None of us are without blame, we are all cringe. Let the kids be cringe too, it’s part of growing up

      • ArxCyberwolf
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        Remember when everything had to have a moustache, crocs were all the rage, and the whole Scene fashion? I miss that era. Simpler times.

    • @EldritchFeminity
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      Every time I see somebody complaining about how (younger) people consume media today, I’m reminded of a video I saw of somebody talking about the so-called “ADHD Epidemic” and this one comic in it of a kid sitting at a desk in school and staring at a flashing billboard out the window while the teacher was yelling at him to pay attention. His response was, “To what?”

      Gen X and Millenials are a product of that environment and it’s gotten worse since the rise of social media. Gen Z and Alpha are growing up in a world of a million points of stimulus attempting to hog their dopamine receptors all at once. Is it any wonder that they can’t focus on any one thing for more than 3 seconds?

      All of our attention spans for generations now have been stolen by advertisers looking to make money off of it. The younger generations deserve our kindness for what’s been done to them. Or else we’re no better than those older than us were when we were young.

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        I’m a millenial (born 1981), and I remember my father (a boomer) complaining about MTV in the 90s and 00s, and how “confusing” it was. He couldn’t fathom how the young people could pay attention to what was being told on the account of how fast and abrupt the cutting was.

        Fast forwards to today, and the MTV-style is everywhere: YouTube, TikTok, Reels etc is directly traced back to the fast paced MTV style of cutting.

        Question is. How fast can we go!?

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        I’ve said it quite a few times now so listen up.

        This hypothetical person in the green text is in the wrong. However my issue is that it is painted as an issue with the generation rather than just plain human decency. This could be an issue with anyone. It’s deliberately used to paint the generation in a negative light and is an attempt at pretty tribalism that has been tried with every generation.

        This tactic has been used to separate generations and create tribalism especially politically for years and I do not condone it.

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            Yeah absolutely humans are predisposed to tribalism, the issue is when you allow that predisposition to be weaponized.

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                If you don’t think anyone weaponizes tribalism you haven’t seen the GOP messaging over at least the last 8 years

      • Franklin
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        Probably not but I still think it’s important to be kind and not prejudice because of the generation.

        This person in the green text is in the wrong but not because they’re a zoomer

      • @rmuk@feddit.uk
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        Cap is a reference to the façade that you can put over your teeth to make them look nice. Cap means fake, insincere; no cap means authentic, real, honest.

        Your free trial of my transgenerational banter course, Boomer2Zoomer, has expired.

          • @Steak@lemmy.ca
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            Zoomers are just another generation of humans the same as the last but with different circumstances upon arrival to earth. Can’t really blame them for being born when they were, you’d be a Zoomer too if you were born then. Imagine being born and your mom is addicted to a fucking smartphone and barely pays attention to you and then when you’re 4 she gives you her old phone so you’ll shut the Fuck up and leave her and her phone alone. Like fuck that’s some shit.

            • @ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca
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              Zoomers aren’t that young, that’s Gen A

              I was just using Millennial slang to highlight that non-boomers don’t understand their slang

        • @Steak@lemmy.ca
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          Is that really what it means lmfao? Here I was thinking it was deep shit I was just to dumb or old to understand lolol

  • fadingembers
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    I see more boomers blasting their phones than any other demographic

    • @RBWells@lemmy.world
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      I tease my husband when he is on Facebook because my God it sounds exactly like when the kids are scrolling TikTok. Don’t know how he can stand it. But he doesn’t do that out in the world.

    • I blame the phone designers removing the headphone jack. We now have a generation of people who grew up without it,always using the speaker, max volume out loud is just how they exist, it’s the new normal.

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    My wife (a millennial) does this all the time at home. Part of me thinks it’s her way of getting me to leave the living room so she can fart.

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    As a zoomer I still find that stuff strange. Although to all the people saying social media is bad, lemmy is also social media and can be just as bad for you. Go outside, touch grass or something. Better than shitting on some kid who was neglected by his parents and given a phone as a replacement.