If she likes you and your height is a problem, she didn’t actually like you
Obviously. It’s just frustrating that being short is a dealbreaker for so many women. Even women who are significantly shorter than 5’5.5" will often refuse to consider a guy of that height.
So, a short guy will never even get to the stage where “she likes you” is even a consideration, because the height filter rules them out of contention. Personality, fitness, sense of humour, etc. are all irrelevant because your parents happened to be short.
deleted by creator
I seriously did not know this was an issue until I saw it being talked about on online forums.
deleted by creator
Yes, and there have been “plenty” of short NBA players too. That doesn’t change the fact that height is a massive advantage.
deleted by creator
That’s nice, but you’re pretending it’s not a real problem when it is a real problem.
deleted by creator
Yes, and there are a few NBA players who are under 5’5", but that doesn’t mean that there isn’t a huge advantage to being tall.
if you think being short is hard, try being ugly.
I do feel for the folks working against both.
At least with ugliness, it’s easy to understand the problem.
gee thanks
That’s not true. It’s just one factor. Most of the men in the world are 5’5" poor dudes. It’s not money or height.
It’s one critical factor that, because it’s a number is easy to use as a filter.
I don’t know about “most of the men in the world” being 5’5". It may be an average if you count a lot of developing countries with poor nutrition. But, among developed countries it’s a lot more than that. Even Japan, which is known for smaller people, has 172 cm (5’7.5") as the average.
The average person lives in a developing country with poor nutrition.
And?
Yeah and undoubtedly that sucks
Shouldn’t have added the .5.
Saying the extra half inch makes you look desperate, just say 5’5" or 5’6" and if she gets awkward, it’s on her
Can someone explain this “trend” with asking someone’s height and it being an elimination factor?
Because this is the equivalent to the “big boobs” factor but only more obvious.
Some women don’t want to date men who are shorter than them (and vice versa). Just like some men wouldn’t want to date women with smaller boobs than them.
I feel like one of those is much more common though
deleted by creator
I do think the height thing is almost biological due to how common it is, even across cultures.
The overemphasis on numbers, not so much.
And me complaining my times were filled with shallow people.
Dodged a bullet
why not just answer in metric? baffle mode
deleted by creator
Just wondering, where would I go in real life? I can’t really go to the bar, and the thought of approaching someone in like, a cafe, is horrifying (I’m trans so super worried about being seen as a creep)
deleted by creator
Removed by mod
sometimes it’s not even about the confidence. sometimes people fuck, sometimes people marry, (sometimes people kill? idk) and it wasn’t related to any particular thing.
deleted by creator
deleted by creator
deleted by creator
deleted by creator
Everyone who is taller than 5’8" rounds up to 6’ so I always just round up to 5’8"
Everyone who is taller than 5’8" rounds up to 6’
Especially those who are taller than 6’
I mean it doesn’t stop Charlie White from being a damn sex machine. Own your body, don’t let it own you. Short? Who’s short? I’m not 5 and a half feet short, I’m 5 and a half feet tall baby
I recall one moment with an ex GF, we were the same height, never bothered me, it was what it was. I still recall we went to some even though, she put on some heels and turned around and gave me just the most heart breaking pity look and took off her heels. Man, it never occurred to me it was or would be a problem, but I could see it was to her.
That didn’t ruin the relationship or anything, we continued for quite a bit after, but I still recall that vividly.
