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    I’ve (thankfully) never encountered a reference to helicopter genders IRL, however I can’t seem to escape the fucking “they’re putting litter boxes in classrooms!!” myth. It’s such an utterly absurd, inane, asinine idea yet I’ve seen real people, who are seemingly functional adults, actually believe this.

    Even if you buy into the conspiracy theories and think that the education system is some globalist socialist catgirl plot, do you think teenagers equipped with cell phones and social media wouldn’t meme the shit out of the classroom litterbox? And yet, we still haven’t seen a single picture proving this has ever happened anywhere. That doesn’t stop people from believing it though, and somehow using it as an excuse to delegitimize and attack trans people.

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      It’s a lie spun out from a truth.

      There have been issued cat litter to schools. The reason is in case of a lock down due to a school shooting the kids can urinate and defacate somewhere.

      It’s incredibly sad. The gun nuts believe it’s their right to shoot up a school, but they won’t allow cat litter to be issued to the class rooms.

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        Holy shit, that’s depressing. Finding out there’s a kernel of truth beneath it and that it’s this just wrecked me.

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        Anything but sane gun laws, eh? Once again America, what the fuck is going on over there?

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        On the contrary, there’s overwhelming evidence of this being just the case, It’s just not in the mainstream media just like how they covered up the cloning of famous wrapper Eminem per-se. I recommend you get some more reliable news sources to further your educational development.

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          A troll account you should probably just ban or block judging by their comment history.

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          There’s a famous wrapper called Eminem? That’s such a coincidence as there’s also a rapper named Eminem!

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      They believe it in part because transphobia is itself inherently irrational. They already carry around the hatred for no reason, so it’s not like they’re suddenly going to have standards before they believe whatever story they hear that caters to their outrage

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        Because they’ve been taught Jesus will hate them if they’re gay, and if they see an attractive person that turns out to be trans, then that means they’re gay, and they’re going to hell.

        …er, not that it’s rational, but that’s my best attempt at figuring out most of these people.

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      and think that the education system is some globalist socialist catgirl plot

      I want to believe

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      I completely diffused someone who believed in the litterbox thing by laughing as hard at it as it should be laughed at and pointing out how hard republicans are getting trolled

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    I don’t think I’ve ever met or heard of anyone literally claiming that kids are identifying as helicopters. The “I identify as an attack helicopter” thing was originally used as an absurdist critique of gender identity, not as a serious claim, if I remember correctly.

    Edit: Also, there was a pretty good sci-fi short story that took the idea seriously.

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        Harrison says he’s seen photos online that purport to show children who have undergone these procedures. “When I saw them circulating on social media—and honestly, it’s hard to avoid them at this point—of these young, beautiful children post-surgery:

        What the fuck??? He openly admitted to this? Hard to avoid? What??? So… is anyone investigating Texas state representative Brian Harrison for CSA? Because it appears they should be…

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          The thing is, if you view accounts from transphobes the “it’s hard to avoid” bit is not even an exaggeration. If you only follow them you can’t avoid it because it’s all they post. They post “teenage girls” (usually 18+ trans men) who have either just got out of surgery or have hypertrophic scarring (raised, sometimes discolored scars) so that the photos look as shocking as possible. They love posting pictures of trans men who haven’t been on testosterone as well, so they look as “girl like” as posible. Sometimes they post unhealed/unfinished phalloplasty photos and say they’re doing it to children. It’s just a firehose of disinformation and bigotry.

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            Maybe that’s the thing for me. There are no transphobes in my circles. People I know are either accepting/supportive or neutral (they take a “it’s their life” approach) of people whoever they are… and they post travel photos and family event photos on social media.

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          In his defense, it is legitimately hard to avoid if you search for “trans teen cumsluts” as much as he does.

          I legitimately don’t know who these people think they are fooling by doing the internet equivalent of standing on the corner and yelling “I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO SEXY FEMBOY TWINKS” unsolicited at random passers by.

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        A person named Jamie Reed is saying that children are using words like “mushroom”, “rock”, and “helicopter” as pronouns. That’s not the same as claiming that children are identifying as those things.

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          Not playing semantics here, people with he pronouns don’t ‘identify as hes’ either.

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    If someone were to go about wearing a helicopter costume, hanging out with other helicopters, in short if their lived experience were such that they could reasonably say they identified as a helicopter, then I’d have no problem with it.

    The world needs more weird people and less authoritarian followers.

    Unfortunately most people claiming to identify as attack helicopters are actually self identifying as cunts.

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      I feel like the attack helicopter crowd as you’re describing would be fucking lit. Have you seen how complicated fursuits can get?

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        Be honest, you see a fly-past of a crowd of human helicopters it would make most people’s day.

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          Fuck yeah it would, id probably wanna join them, flying sounds fun

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    My friend tried to convince me that a coworker of his pulled a kid out of school because a classmate identified as a cat and all the kids were asked to communciate with the child in meows. I dropped everything and stared at him for a while. Eventually asked, “do you believe that story” and he back tracked a bit.

    I mentioned the way that “kids are identifying as cat gendered” can be the cry of the antitrans movement but friend changed the subject shortly after.

    Any chance to question, inquire, redefine these kinds of stories, try to take ‘em on. Especially with the people you care about that could use help seeing the other side.

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        IIRC that was true in one school, but it wasn’t to accommodate furries or anything like that – it was to have an emergency bathroom in the event of a school shooting.

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    Had somebody tell me about schools keeping litterboxes for furries, and I just looked at them and asked “Does that really sound like something that’s actually happening, or does it sound like something someone said as a joke?”

    They insisted that it actually happened, and I was like, “I don’t believe that. I’m surprised you believed it.”

    It wasn’t the most thorough debunking I could have come up with, but I was proud of myself that I actually called them out on it, instead of giving them a high eyebrow smile-and-nod.

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      Technically schools are keeping litterboxes in classrooms, but the reason is very different. It’s because in the event of a school shooting, kids don’t have to leave to go to the bathroom. But if people were talking about that they might start thinking about the real problems, and they can’t have that.

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      I like asking them to name the school. Same thing with their claims that kids are being exposed to gay porn.

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      Ask yourself if it’s something that nearly everyone would be against.

      If the answer is yes, then it’s probably not true and you should do actual research to see if it is real.

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      This is probably the best way to deal with someone in these situations. No insults, no arguments, just “I thought you were smarter than that”. It might actually make them think about it rather than dismiss you out of hand.

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    I hear that they have been telling people that school bathrooms now have litter boxes for the kids that identify as cats, something that is completely absurd, and yet for some reason people believe that

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      I mean I’ve met someone who actually identified as a fox… I’m like 95% sure they were just doing a bit, but they were pretty adamant and actually never let on that they were joking, and there was a lot of detail to it… so I actually don’t know

      But I mean that has nothing to do with being trans but instead the furry subculture, so irrelevant anyway here

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        Actually they may have been a Therianthrope or an Otherkin, but this kind of person wouldn’t use a god damn litterbox and the claim there is usually spiritual and not neurological as it is with gender dysphoria.

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          @HawlSera @Azzu Gender dysphoria is a neurological thing in the same sense that *everything* is a neurological thing. Afaik, they haven’t found anything reproducable in the neurological department beyond “the brain lights up in pain when pain is experienced!”, so I find it weird to say that one’s neurological and the other isn’t.

          In a utopian anarchist sci-fi setting, would they be treated much differently? Or would it just be “oh, you want your body to be different? Marcy’s down the hall”?

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            The neural circuitry must exist for people to think like this, so naturally every human behavior is neurological.

            But what they were referring to is that gender dysphoria is likely (some evidence has been produced) a condition with an innate genetic cause. Some chemistry related to hormones being different makes it very “easy”/logical that a born man may feel like a woman (and vice versa), the genetic code is almost completely identical. However it’s much harder, if not impossible, to make the link to feeling like a completely different species, thus it is more akin to religion, “just” a culture-based belief system.

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              All conditions have an innate genetic cause: ever seen a diabetic rock?

              I get what you’re saying, but this isn’t one of those things where allele X causes phenotype Y. At best, there’s genetic predisposition.

              Mammal brains are quite generic. Perhaps the body map is hardcoded, but not even the visual system is hardcoded, and humans with >5 fingers or tails rarely have problems using them, so that would surprise me. If it develops from body feedback, a “disruption” to that could cause all sorts.

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                I’m not sure what you’re talking about/what point you’re trying to make. I understand that all our behavior is genetic in some way, since that’s what we’re built based on. However there is still a qualitative difference between an innate condition that is not majorly affected by the individual environment/circumstances (gender dysphoria), and a condition that only manifests through a specific environment/circumstances (identifying as a fox). One you can do something about, the other not really.

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                  That dichotomy is non-exhaustive. What about innate conditions that are majorly, but not entirely, affected by circumstance? What about conditions that present identically, but are “really” multiple different things, each with distinct causes?

                  When we don’t know, I don’t think it’s useful to try to talk about things as though we do.

                  You don’t know enough to classify those things the way you’ve classified them – or if you do, please share the research because I’m interested in this topic!

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    The venn diagram of people who claim kids are identifying as attack helicopters or believing that schools have litter boxes for kids to use the restroom in, and people who fall for Nigerian Prince scams is just a circle.

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      well one school did have litter for students to use, just not for the thing the GOP/the right would ever want to have in the news so they created a nice moral panic around it bending the truth like they are the fucking last air bender bending air.

      the litter was there so that in case of a school shooting kids being locked in their classes have somewhere to go so that piss doesn’t go all over the place

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    The veracity of the claim is not the point. It’s like the groomers claim or if we go old enough, blood libel and the The Protocols of the Elders of Zion

    It’s a justification for outrage and violence and requires a willingness to believe without healthy skepticism.

    Deceptions like this work only because its intended audience wants to believe it, especially when alternative, fact-based explainations are complex and uncomfortable.

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    TBH I’m more concerned with helicopter parents than I am about helicopter kids.

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    I saw a group of kids dressed as cats in the mall a couple months back. Tails and all.

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      in the 1850s young ladies wore 18-foot-wide dresses and played party games where they’d put candies in a giant bowl of brandy and set it on fire and you had to get the candy out without burning yourself

      kids have always done things for the lulz