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    3 days ago

    Now that the weather’s warmer I bought some nice, sensible, not-baby-trans-I-hope dresses. Now that I can (very slightly) fill out the bust a bit (and not the stomach!), they are extremely affirming. It still feels a bit weird, but nice, to wear fitted stuff that’s tight around the chest.

    The other day I went out on some errands in full-on fem (not that I boy mode ever, but I was trying to push the boundary). The sun was shining, the breeze pushing my skirt against my legs, etc etc. It was like a dream. As it happens I was updating my name on All The Things, and most places asked “and what is your relation to <masculine name>?”. Every time I replied that we’re the same person I got the “blink… blink… huh? … oooOOOhhh” response :3

    🎵 Trans Joy 🎵