I am very comftable with he/him pronouns. Always was but recently I noticed that while I don’t go out of my way to use them I’m also fine with they/them pronouns being used on me.
It could be a phase but I’m not sure. It could also be that I tend to use they/them as an alternative in. I’m confused
It’s less “if I’m fine with both he/him and they/them that must mean I’m not cis” and more “I really dig the idea of being nonbinary/whatever non-cis identity because it resonates with how I understand my gender”
Like, you can be cis and use he/they if you want to. You get to decide what you vibe with. Try pronouns and clothes and identities on. Do a mental identity drag show. Be messy and weird and look at things upside-down and backwards on occasion. Experiment.
You’re the authority on you. Nobody else knows you like you do - so try it all, then come back and let us know what you found out!
Yes! I really like this answer :)