• NickwithaC@lemmy.world
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    You forgot “cis allies making fun on cis transphobes” which I calculate to be a larger slice of the pie than all the others combined.

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    The ONE time I heard this, I said it myself at the Gamestop where I’m a regular as a joke.

    I was asked Cash or Credit, and I in a faux-outraged voice just asked “Did you just assume my tender?”

    Then me and the cashier laughed.

  • finitebanjo@lemmy.world
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    Actually, trans is like 0.1% of the total population, so that sliver of trans people who say that should much tinier.

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    Yeah, the only time I actually heard that phrase in real life was at a transsexual gaming night, followed by a burst of laughter.

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        Did you just assume Gaming Night’s transness? Transsexual is a thing, and it’s distinct from transgender.

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          It’s not really that distinct, no. Not unless you’re transmed and believe pre and post op trans people need to divided from each other.

          Youre free to use whatever terms you’d like to use for yourself, but transsexual was how people referred to all transgender people until the term transgender took off in the late 90s.

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          Can you explain what it means to me? I’m nb and I’ve always disliked it because it tends to confuse people, making them think being trans is a sexuality.

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          oh, then i am very sorri. i as genuinely not aware and assumed that it was an old-timey word. i apologize.

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              It implies a sex change op which is quite invasive of people’s privacy. It’s also inaccurate for a lot of trans folks who may only change their gender expression and avoid the operation altogether, hence the adoption of transgender that has the right emphasis.

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              Not op, but I was taught by one of my trans friends it was an old term and not very correct nowadays as it inferred being trans was something sexual and not just yknow, bring trans ig

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    🟩 me when accosted by an irate middle aged woman while exiting the pointlessly gendered single seat bathroom (I am a fully housebroken husband)

    ETA: by housebroken I mean i sit when i pee and clean up anything left on the bowl or seat that flushing doesn’t handle. It’s just good manners

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    I don’t even make the chart? CIS father of a trans kid trying to make the trans kid laugh when they try to get my attention at the store by saying “Dad!”