Trans woman - 9 years HRT

Intersectional feminist

Queer anarchist

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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • To any cis people wandering in from c/All, please review the rules of this community and consider you may not have the same first hand experiences as trans people.

    Cis people are welcome to participate here so long as they’re not disrupting the safety of our community. Spreading misinformation and maintaining ignorance is not acceptable here.

    In an ideal world being transgender would be of literally no consequence. We do not live in such a world. Being trans is life or death across the vast majority of the world. The disclosure of transgender status is a massive vulnerability that is unwarranted in >90% of medical situations.

    This thread was not created with this discussion in mind. If it continues to be derailed I will lock the thread.


  • A few things.

    Firstly, OP specifically said “Ideally without disclosing I’m trans”. Your whole comment was unnecessary first off from the outset.

    Secondly, you have grossly overstated medical necessity here. Hormonally trans women who have been on HRT are functionally much closer to cis women than cis men. Trans status is rarely relevant to any medical treatment that isn’t specifically about reproductive organs.

    Thirdly, trans status is a matter of life or death in the vast majority of the world. Medical necessity, even if it were as significant as you’ve tried to portray it as, means nothing if you get arrested or killed.


  • I strongly dislike pornography, and absolutely agree that pornography has genuinely fucked with social perceptions of what healthy and normal sex is supposed to look like. It doesn’t by definition have to do this, but does so largely because of exploitation within the industry itself.

    That being said, I am resolutely opposed to any attempt to gatekeep the internet in this manner. It’s really not about pornography. It’s about mass surveillance. Anyone with a VPN can effectively bypass these restrictions. Its the fact that the majority of people will not put in the effort to do so, and will more readily just let the app scan their face and note their identifying information. This has made tracking people significantly easier for the British government, and has opened the door to creating a legal precedent to control what kinds of content minors can access. Principally, it allows the restriction of certain political content from minors view. This allows it to function as a very effective propaganda tool.




  • Yes, climb into the box with all the people willing to sell minority rights away to appeal to fascists. Like, “Hey you guys hate queer people right? Well, we actually will tolerate that over here! If you guys want to implement politics intended to drive trans kids to kill themselves, hey thats totally fine we would be willing to do that if you vote for us!”

    This is the box youre asking trans people to climb into?





  • LadyAutumnMtoTransfemHelp with support group recommendation
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    15 days ago

    I’m sorry you lost access to your support group. Youre absolutely welcome to participate in this community but the culture fostered in that community is not accepted here. The language used in that community is not permitted in this community.

    This community is also explicitly supportive of all gender diverse people, including non-binary and agender people. I know that 4tran has a long history of transmedicalism and demonization of non-binary people. That is categorically unacceptable here and will result in moderator action.

    If you can abide by that, you’re absolutely welcome here. This space is for all transfeminine people, and we work hard to maintain its safety and accessibility for everyone.



  • China is already selling their EVs literally around the world. Their cars are significantly more cost effective and more technologically advanced than literally any competition. Theyre all over the world. For good reason. They’re also building factories in other countries, around the world, to bring the same cars and technology there. Canada is missing out categorically.

    Canada also isnt holding out over workers rights motives. Its because of our close ties with America and the American auto industry.


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    MtoTransfemprogesterone sources?
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    This community is supportive of DIY, and I dont have any problem with this being asked here. I would advise any responders to send supplier links via DMs. Progesterone and estrogen aren’t controlled substances, so I’m not really that concerned about people inquiring here.


  • I think in the sense of “global elite athletics”, no it by definition isn’t fair. At all levels of sports funding is a significant entry barrier to elite competition. Biological advantages are everywhere too, irrespective of gender. Height, leg height, wing span, lung capacity, heart size, spinal curvature, basically every kind of biological parameter can create an advantage over someone else.

    Thats an advantage those athletes havent earned. You don’t earn a biological advantage, you just have it. You don’t earn being born to a wealthy family who can finance your strict comprehensive training regimen, you just are born to one. If sports is about fairness, that is to say like, a level playing field anyone can come along and work really hard and compete, then no sports is not fair. Some people will be better than others no matter how hard they work.

    Fairness in the sense of this discussion, is competition within your gender. Critics of trans inclusion are not objecting on biological grounds, they are objecting to a trans woman competing with cisgender women because they do not agree that she is a woman. These arguments about fairness are almost never applied to cis women with height or wingspan advantages. Just to trans women of any kind for competing at any level of competition.

    If fairness is the goal, then sports needs to be extensively categorized based on all the biological parameters that give you an advantage. Or else some kind of combined leaderboard where everyones advantage or handicap is accounted for. Athletics competitions for people with disabilities already implement a combined leaderboard system in this way.

    But no one is interested in actually being fair. They’re interested in who does the absolute best. Who is the absolute best woman and who is the absolute best man. The disagreement is that trans women are women. There’s nothing else they’re concerned with precluding certain women from participating. They just disagree that trans women are women and therefore believe that in a “whos the absolute best woman at xyz” competition trans women should be excluded. To say that its a matter of fairness is demonstrably false.

    Oh, and also your comment breaks one of the rules of this community. I’m leaving it up because I think it presents an opportunity to educate on exactly why this belief is wrong. But further comments to this effect will be removed. Please follow the rules of this community.



  • LadyAutumntoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldFurries are cool
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    So your definition of furry is exclusively someone who wears fur suits in public? Because that’s not most people’s definition of that term. But either way, is it just beyond you that someone could like doing something others see as weird for any reason other than sexual gratification?

    Also, why do you use breasts are your “sexual but not fetishized” example here lmao are you under the impression that the western sexual fixation on breasts is not fetishistic


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    I feel fundamentally that “best buds with a pedophile” and “documented in front of the whole nation as sexually abusing children with Jeffrey Epstein” are just 2 fundamentally different things. Its never been a secret. But neither was Harvey, nor Bill Cosby. When it gained worldwide public attention is when associates dropped them. As soon as it became a risk to their public careers and their money.



  • Its not really a matter of him doing it. Its a matter of how long his government can withstand constant mounting pressure to do so. And how long until someone in the administration cracks and leaks them. Bondi honestly doesnt seem like she can handle this forever.

    There’s a real part of me that thinks he might not plan to come back from Scotland. A delusional hope that maybe he sees the writing on the wall as his own politicians turn against him, knowing that conclusive proof that he is a child molester will likely become public soon. And his usual waffling about hoaxes and treason just isnt sticking, not even close. Every single choice he has made in the past 2 weeks has made things worse.


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    The fall of the American empire happening live for all to see. A pedophile president, a government chopped into pieces and fed into a wood chipper, a bunch of self obsessed egotistic billionaires lobbying for child labor laws to be repealed, and a totally deranged political system that has gotten so high on the fumes of its own rotting corpse that it can’t even tell it’s dying.

    The MAGA fascist movement built itself on characterization of its opponents as pedophiles. Its one thing for this to be obviously untrue, its another thing entirely for it to suddenly preoccupy itself very heavily on protecting pedophiles. The entire political elite of the movement are greedy narcisstic egomaniacal sociopaths. Their primary motives have always been personal gain. Attaching themselves to an obvious pedophile is very different than attaching themselves to one who has been documented in the public arena as one. The republican party fascist elite won’t risk their own necks for that. I don’t know how they will respond. He however is running out of options that aren’t “create a police state, arrest all political opposition, and take state control of all media”. Its do or die for his dictatorship.






















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