

A few things.
Firstly, OP specifically said “Ideally without disclosing I’m trans”. Your whole comment was unnecessary first off from the outset.
Secondly, you have grossly overstated medical necessity here. Hormonally trans women who have been on HRT are functionally much closer to cis women than cis men. Trans status is rarely relevant to any medical treatment that isn’t specifically about reproductive organs.
Thirdly, trans status is a matter of life or death in the vast majority of the world. Medical necessity, even if it were as significant as you’ve tried to portray it as, means nothing if you get arrested or killed.
To any cis people wandering in from c/All, please review the rules of this community and consider you may not have the same first hand experiences as trans people.
Cis people are welcome to participate here so long as they’re not disrupting the safety of our community. Spreading misinformation and maintaining ignorance is not acceptable here.
In an ideal world being transgender would be of literally no consequence. We do not live in such a world. Being trans is life or death across the vast majority of the world. The disclosure of transgender status is a massive vulnerability that is unwarranted in >90% of medical situations.
This thread was not created with this discussion in mind. If it continues to be derailed I will lock the thread.