Lots of people who are seeing top-level postings about Hexbear. Net are probably confused about what has been going on and I want to give an SRD-style overview of the whole thing.
Note: As a user of Blahaj.Zone, I am not a neutral party in this and I do not pretend to be. This is how the whole thing has played out from my perspective.

Hexbear. Net is another Lemmy instance that had relatively recently started to federate with Blahaj.Zone and other Lemmy instances. It had previously been known as Chapo.Chat because it began as an instance for fans of the podcast ChapoTrapHouse.
Recently users from Blahaj.Zone (as well as other Lemmy instances) began to complain about the behavior of Hexbear users. The complaints were about rude, obnoxious behavior: Hexbear users calling people “libs” as an insult, denying crimes of Russia and China, denying the crimes of Stalin,…
Such behavior was not necessarily forbidden on Blahaj.Zone, but certain sub-Lemmys had their own rules on these subjects.
One of the threads about Hexbear: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/1854795?scrollToComments=true

After an ever increasing number of users calling for defederating from Hexbear. Net, Ada (admin of Blahaj.Zone) opened a thread to talk about it. The thread was quickly inundated with Hexbear users, complaining in turn about being called out in this way. Though many of their comments exploited a current bug in the Lemmy code which resulted in emoji’s being embedded as pictures which results in lots of image spam.
Ada responded by removing top-level comments in the thread which were not from Blahaj.Zone’s users, because she wanted to get the feedback of her own community, not from anybody else.
This happened originally in this thread: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/1959801

The discussion on Blahaj.Zone was a back and forth: Lots of people calling for “leftist and queer unity”, others complaining about getting harassed by Hexbear users.

Meanwhile, elsewhere: Lemm.ee, a Lemmy instance operated and managed by someone from Estonia, also opened a discussion about Hexbear - at least partially motivated by the admin’s increasing unease of the rampant denial of soviet atrocities and the occupation of Estonia by the Soviet Union. Russian propaganda in regards to the war in Ukraine was also an issue.
Lemm.ee was largely encountering similar problems as Blahaj.Zone, though the Lemme.ee admin admitted that the Hexbear admin was generally responsive to reports and complaints.
The thread on Lemm.ee: https://lemm.ee/post/4543536

The thread was also flooded with comments from Hexbear users. The admin of Lemm.ee also responded by hiding most of the comments from Hexbear.
https://mastodon.social/@brooklynman/110911292961470110

Back on Blahaj.Zone, a tangent opens up: A Hexbear user complains about c/196, the new home of Reddit’s r/196 which had relocated to Blahaj.Zone and has been its biggest community ever since. The Hexbear user complains about their comments being removed, comments that called out the use of the r-word and other call-outs. The user posts pictures of the removal notices.
Blahaj.Zone’s admin Ada steps in and intervenes on behalf of the Hexbear user, having a stern word with the c/196 mod responsible for the removal of the comments.
https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2136643

A Hexbear admin also gets involved and sends a message to the mods of c/196 demanding the removal of the sub-Lemmy’s banner, because it contains “fuck tankies²”, arguing that tankies is a slur. The c/196 mod refuses and publishes their message.
[²"Tankies" is a pejorative term for authoritarian socialists in the vein of Stalin and/or Mao.]
https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/1961004

While the discussion if Blahaj.Zone should defederate from Hexbear is still ongoing, the Hexbear admins defederated from Blahaj.Zone without warning from their side, because of…

unaddressed ableist removals from the /c/196 moderators, defense of chasers, no-quarter rules regarding our users, leakage of good-faith DMs from our admin team, and a general lack of initiative to punish these behavior

In her a response to these events, Ada points out in a comment that she never had the chance to adress the ableist incident (she was in bed) while other issues had happened in the past and had been adressed at the time. Thus she could not react before Hexbear defederated.
https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2135406

TL;dr: Blahaj.Zone’s users complain about ill behavior of users on Hexbear. Net. A discussion about defederation begins on Blahaj.Zone. Meanwhile Hexbear users complain about Blahaj.Zone in turn and Hexbear. Net defederates instantly and without warning.

  • YaaAsantewaaEnglish
    9·
    1 year ago

    With all respect, most of the users on Mastadon and the Fediverse are white, same as what was on Reddit. When you look at the entire picture and all you see is white celebrity worship and white icons and white idols with no one of color being represented anywhere then you know you’re in a white space, not a diverse one.

    Plus it’s always been rather odd to me that whenever people of color show up in anything, especially entertainment related, there’s always major criticism and scandal, but white people apparently are untouchable and can do no wrong and are 100% innocent, 100% charitable, 100% good little angels who are a benefit to mankind while people of color are just a nuisance I guess, no matter what we do it’s never good enough

    And regarding the tankie thing, that’s just nazi garbage coming over from reddit which is what I was talking about in my other post, they’re fine with mass murdering innocent people with drones but then when you give them a taste back they call you a “tankie” because they’re just fascists at the end of the day and hate being talked back to. Best to ignore people like that because they have no real beliefs

    • good_girl
      16·
      1 year ago

      And regarding the tankie thing, that’s just nazi garbage coming over from reddit which is what I was talking about in my other post, they’re fine with mass murdering innocent people with drones but then when you give them a taste back they call you a “tankie” because they’re just fascists at the end of the day and hate being talked back to. Best to ignore people like that because they have no real beliefs

      Please learn what tankies and communism are and why comparing them to fascists is disingenuous and dangerous rhetoric. I lean closer to anarchist, but I understand the goals of MLs and their ilk. If any one group that isn’t part of the right side of the american political spectrum (because duh) is going to be compared to fascists, it’s the american liberals as libertarianism and its branches ultimately serve to enable the rise of fascism.

        • good_girl
          10·
          1 year ago

          Is there a reason an account made during peak hexbear drama is suddenly commenting on all my recent posts regarding hexbear? Is this gasp brigading?

          Also way to completely leave everything in my comment unaddressed, that takes real skill.

            • good_girl
              6·
              1 year ago

              Yeah real convenient that your very first comment on this instance was regarding hexbear.

              You’re brigading because you commented on three of my posts in a row in a short time period across multiple different threads.

                • good_girl
                  5·
                  1 year ago

                  So you discovered us because of a topic that doesn’t concern you and you took it upon yourself to bestow us with your much needed input. And you don’t see that as brigading… (Don’t answer that I already know you were never arguing in good faith)

    • good_girl
      5·
      1 year ago

      With all respect, most of the users on Mastadon and the Fediverse are white, same as what was on Reddit. When you look at the entire picture and all you see is white celebrity worship and white icons and white idols with no one of color being represented anywhere then you know you’re in a white space, not a diverse one.

      Plus it’s always been rather odd to me that whenever people of color show up in anything, especially entertainment related, there’s always major criticism and scandal, but white people apparently are untouchable and can do no wrong and are 100% innocent, 100% charitable, 100% good little angels who are a benefit to mankind while people of color are just a nuisance I guess, no matter what we do it’s never good enough

      I fully agree which is why i stopped getting invested in mainstream narratives fed to people through news and media. (not to say I’m fully tuned out, I pay attention to things that should be known but i take them with a grain of salt)

      Unfortunately this also means that I hold a base level of disdain for the things that most people enjoy so I have to try to avoid looking like a buzzkill.