• PugJesus@lemmy.world
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    I suppose I should thank everyone in this comment section. I was initially feeling a little like I might have overreacted to an admin making a decision that no one in their right minds would actually defend when I sadposted on 196 about leaving, but seeing the wellspring of support for dragonfuckergender, I now feel comfortable in that leaving Blahaj is, indeed, the correct choice.

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        EDIT: BTW, wouldn’t surprise me if you stopped respecting trans folks too, since some of us were “mean” to you.

        Whatever you have to tell yourself.

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        yeah, frankly anyone who says shit like this:

        Sorry, I’ve already committed thoughtcrime by questioning whether dragons are real. This is the state of Blahaj, it would seem.

        is already going out of their way to treat people poorly. given their past statements, it’s deffo you being the bigger person for even giving them the time of day at this point.

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      Bye, bigot. You’re not welcome anyway. You don’t get to question someone’s identity. Period. No matter what else they might have done, you do not get to question their identity.

      • I don’t see how it’s bigoted to be concerned with trolls whose behaviour actively harms the LGBTQ+ movement. There are tons of comments of that user that show they’re just trolling and engaging in disingenuous behaviour.

        The right to identify as X or Y or whatever is not being questioned, the sincerity of this user specifically is being questioned. And that’s done because there’s a history of people claiming to identify as X/Y when they have no intention of doing so, and just doing it to drive people away from LGBTQ+ acceptance.

        Gatekeeping support is not the answer here.

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        Bye, bigot. You’re not welcome anyway. You don’t get to question someone’s identity. Period. No matter what else they might have done, you do not get to question their identity.

        It’s a fun axiom you have there. Shame it doesn’t make any sense. But hey, if you want to validate the old conservative ‘attack helicopter’ joke, I literally can’t stop you. And you can’t question anyone who identifies as such. Funny world.

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        Not at all. Like I said, considering the reactions of Blahaj users in this thread, Blahaj quite clearly is not any place I want to remain active in.

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          Ah yes, they’re all crazy, where have we heard that line before? God forbid we treat people with the slightest bit of dignity.

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            Ah yes, they’re all crazy, where have we heard that line before? God forbid we treat people with the slightest bit of dignity.

            Sorry, I’ve already committed thoughtcrime by questioning whether dragons are real. This is the state of Blahaj, it would seem.

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              You slated the thinking of an entire community centered around LGBTQ stuff, not the reality of Puff the Magic Dragon.

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                You slated the thinking of an entire community centered around LGBTQ stuff, not the reality of Puff the Magic Dragon.

                So now we’re dealing with not only poor reading, but poor writing as well. Wonderful.

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            Ah yes, they’re all crazy, where have we heard that line before? God forbid we treat people DRAGONS with the slightest bit of dignity.

            GET IT RIGHT YOU BIGOT

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          I invite you to check which instances “all those Blåhaj users” are actually from.

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            I invite you to check which instances “all those Blåhaj users” are actually from.

            Copygirl - Blahaj

            Erin - Blahaj

            Catoblepas - Blahaj

            Nimble - Blahaj

            WeirdyTrip - Blahaj

            Erotador - Blahaj

            Any other stupid points you want disproven, or are we done here?

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              Here’s some non-Blåhaj users I’ve come across in this thread that are echoing a similar sentiment to me:

              • Ma…@lemmy.world
              • St…@lemmy.world
              • sp…@lemmy.cafe
              • Mo…@pawb.social
              • Re…@lemmy.world
              • yu…@pawb.social
              • Al…@leminal.space
              • ca...@lemm.ee
              • la…@lemmy.world
              • OB...@lemmy.ml

              You’ve got plenty of non-Blåhaj opinions in this thread questioning a Blåhaj admin’s decision.

              Not to mention Dragon Rider isn’t even from our instance. Take it up with lemmy.nz if you want drag’s account banned.

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                Take it up with lemmy.nz if you want drag’s account banned.

                I’ve stated multiple times that drag isn’t the problem for me. I don’t even remember the last interaction I had with drag. The admin reaction is the problem.

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                  So drag isn’t the problem, even though drag’s a “troll” whose identity does not deserve respect (as you’ve repeatedly made clear in this thread), and you’re pissed at the admin whose instance’s rules are to respect identities and pronouns even regardless of that (and then enforcing those rules), instead of the admin of the instance that’s hosting the supposed “troll” and enabling drag’s behavior across many instances…?

                  Tell me how that’s supposed to make sense. Or, actually, don’t. I’ve seen plenty of your kind show their true colors over the course of trying to get through to you. You’re just unable to deal with the fact that you got rightfully banned after breaking the rules, even after being told what the issue is multiple times. Grow up. Learn from your mistakes.

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                Just a heads up: PJ there’s opinion is almost always whatever stirs up the most shit while getting them approval. I’ve literally seen them contradict their self within a few minutes in different conversations with separate people. If you look up “bad faith” on Wikipedia, a screenshot of some of their conversations here is listed.

                I’m joking for the last sentence, but don’t drive yourself crazy. They are the poster child for .world’s problematic shit stirring, weird crusading behavior. Conversing with them is a waste of your time.

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            I just tested this twice. One in a reply to myself and one in a reply to you. Both comments are deleted and are labeled as such in this post; however, they are fully removed on my profile page. Therefore, I don’t think you are correct.

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                Interesting. Though, I guess my client would filter out anything in that pugjesus link then too. I tried pasting it into my browser but it won’t show my anything without logging in. I guess it either won’t accept my sh.itjust.works credentials, or I got my password wrong too many times, because it’s giving me a “too many requests, try again later” message.

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                  Also interesting! I didn’t have to log in on my browser, the big box is just about logging in to save them as a favorite. They have no activity history so everything is blank, thusly.

                  And that’s more then enough PJ for the year.