Is there an emoji[1] that is recognised to mean any genitalia, sexual organ, erogenous zone or the like in a wildcard or reader’s-choice kind of way?

We all know about brinjals, peaches and certain blossom emoji but I’m looking for a single emoji, likely a little suggestive, that people in the LGBTQ+, non-binary, sexually freed and queer community interpret as meaning their parts – whatever those happen to be, whether expressed or observed at birth or chosen, freely, in life – and welcomes their own free will to choose what that means, for them.

Although I have recently chosen new levels of acceptance of the ways in which I deviate from the “traditional”[2] gender binary I remain, alas, uneducated in how others talk and communicate about their sexuality and so I find myself scared to express my own sexuality for fear of perpetuating the very indoctrination from which I feel I escape, unwillingly and likely unconsciously. Yet I have Thoughts to share and so I seek, now, to learn how to communicate sympathetically – symbiotically – on these topics.

Help me.

  1. It doesn’t necessarily have to be a fruit or a vegetable or flower or anything particular. The question can be interpreted more generally. ↩︎

  2. Even here, I know that “traditional” is actually only a descriptor for very recent human history. I actually don’t know if it is right to use this descriptor and I wonder. Are there better terms for 20th century cis-het. binary strictures, sexual suppression, prudishness and culture-wars? ↩︎

  • jol@discuss.tchncs.de
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    2 days ago

    I want to propose the tomato.

    In some languages, tomatoes refer to the testicles, while some people use it in similar way to mean the “passive” organ (vagina, ass). It’s also a very versatile fruit with many different shapes.