Hi y’all, I’ve been (slowly) doing my transition for almost 2 years now and it’s mostly good. I didn’t really have any plan in place when I started, just the vague idea of maybe transitioning. I think I’m running into this problem because of how my brain developed. I’m really bad at planning out past a year because all my life I assumed I wouldn’t make it past 21. So, is there some sort of guide on the steps of transition? Preferably a wiki sort of thing. I’ve looked a bit but nothing has caught my eye.
It’s not super important but it’d really help me figure out how to proceed. Like okay, I’m on HRT and that’s going fine, so now what? I guess I’m a bit lost.
I understand a bit what you mean. But it really is up to you. For me getting bottom surgery was a long term goal of transition, and I recently was able to get it. I’m now looking at vocal feminization surgery as a possibility as for me voice dysphoria was the next worst after bottom dysphoria. But thats only how I feel, everyone is going to feel and want different things.
Transition is a unique and personal journey and there’s no set in stone method to it. It just comes down to what you want with your life, and what you think is necessary to achieve that.