For the purpose of this question, the target age range is 20-30. Asking because I feel like I’m wasting my youth.

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      I’d also add participate in local politics. There’s no law saying a 20 year old can’t be any elected official but president.

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            Even in the US, state-level representation hardly counts as local. Neighborhoods, towns, counties, etc. all have people representing them.

            It’s cool to care about and build up your community.

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      If you absolutely hate sunscreen for sensory reasons, check out UPF jackets and other clothing. I live in a place where the UV is 11+ every day in the summer and it works great without being suffocatingly hot. Being able to just throw a jacket on and go outside without worrying about sunburn is pretty great.

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        What is the material like, does it get hot inside? Is there a brand that you recommend?

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          The one I have is from REI and made of modal (similar to rayon, made from wood pulp), it’s the only one I’ve used but it feels very nice, soft, and lightweight. I don’t ever feel like I’d be better off not wearing it if I’m in direct sunlight, and sweat dries from it fairly quickly. I’ve been hot while wearing it but not any hotter than I would have been standing in the sun to begin with, you know? I’ve also never had it fail and result in a burn, and my dermatologist was enthusiastic about it when I brought up that I’d been using that instead of sunscreen.

          The main reason I went with that brand was because I couldn’t find any non-polyester options anywhere else. There’s nothing wrong with them functionally, I just try to avoid polyester in general.

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      Don’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your life.

      The most interesting people I know didn’t know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives,

      some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still don’t.

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      Oh yeah this one. Plus, wear a hat. My hairstylist found skin cancer on my scalp a year or two ago and now I have a bald spot where they removed it because scalp skin doesn’t have a whole lot of excess to close a wound. So cute. Thankfully, I can hide it, but it pretty much requires me to wear my hair up every day.

      Eta: I feel like it should go without saying, but maybe doesn’t, that I was incredibly lucky that it was basal cell, not melanoma. A big scar is one of the best outcomes I could’ve had.

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        I haven’t watched that in years! I’d almost forgotten how much young me liked it and now older me sees more wisdom in it.

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        Get sunscreen that you don’t mind applying in the morning.

        Does it last all day or were you just suggesting morning because some people forget it until later?

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      I recommend face moisturizer with SPF for all genders. Put it on every morning. Start young.

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    Floss and make regular dentist visits, prioritize fitness and make it a habit for the rest of your life, and don’t allow negative people in your life

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    20 years ago I would have said invest regularly in an index fund.

    Today I think you should learn all you can about DIY water filtration and growing edible mushrooms in caves.

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    Learn to cook!

    It’s great fun if you can get into it, it fulfills one of your basic needs in a much more fun and satisfying way, and it can be a good and attractive quality in a future partner and / or fun to do with them.

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    Live alone and single at some point in your life.

    It’s shocking how many people never learn to just be themselves, by themselves. And I don’t mean for a month or two. Get to know yourself before you settle in together with somebody else.

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        That’s a good point. We’re going to have a lot of really stunted people who never got the chance to live alone and learn about themselves because nobody can afford rent anymore.

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    Save up an emergency fund. If you can manage to keep six months to a year’s worth of expenses in a savings account, it will give you a huge psychological cushion in rough times. Beyond that, save and invest as early as you can.

    Learn how to do basic maintenance on a bicycle, car, motorcycle or whatever else in your life that you depend on. That knowledge and experience will pay dividends the rest of your life.

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      3-6 months is plenty. At the 6 months mark you take literally any job you can get and then keep looking for one that you want. The other site had a pretty good personal finance community. Their flowchart does a great job of summarizing things. https://i.imgur.com/lSoUQr2.jpeg

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        It might be plenty, depending on your emergency. But you never know when you might be asked to care for an ill family member, suffer a health setback yourself, or end up out of work in a soft labor market - which we are currently in. It’s a risk based decision, but as price-to-earnings of potential investments is currently incredibly high (suggesting unrealistically high future return expectations), I would hedge on the side of more savings rather than earlier investment.

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      Save up an emergency fund.

      I’ll second this by repeating something I said yesterday: it costs more money to have to patch things with bandaid solutions rather than quality solutions. The example I gave was someone not able to pay to turn their electricity back on because they had to keep buying candles for light. I couldn’t save to buy dishes because I kept having to buy disposable plates for my meals.

      When you’re absolutely strapped, you waste a lot of money on what you can get while prolonging getting a real solution. Having an emergency fund that you can go to when you get sick or your car fails or whatever else is really an investment in your own wellbeing.

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    Travel on the cheap while you’re still willing to put up with it.

    Seriously. Save up a couple thousand dollars. Go see stuff.

    Make sure you have enough in your emergency fund to get home if you screw it up.

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    – Acquire new skills that will pay off in the long run.

    – Build habits like exercising, eating well, and prioritizing mental health which can set you up for lifelong well-being.

    – Build deep friendships, relationships, and connections. It’s the decade where many lifelong bonds are formed.

    – Learn about budgeting, saving, investing, and managing credit. Financial literacy will greatly benefit you in the future.

    – Failing in your twenties is part of growth. Embrace failure and learn from it.

    – Focus on collecting experiences, such as concerts, festivals, road trips, or spontaneous adventures, rather than material goods. For memories, don’t collect shot glasses, you’ll regret it later.

    – Learn to enjoy your own company, reflect on your goals, and become comfortable with solitude.

    – Work on understanding your emotions, how to manage them, and how to empathize with others.

    – Expand your mind with literature, self-development books, and works that challenge your worldview.

    – Spend an extended period in another part of the world which can give you an appreciation for different cultures and provide life altering experiences.

    – Learn how to prepare your own meals- a valuable life skill which can help you live healthier.

    – Understand the importance of looking after your mental, physical, and emotional well-being.

    —Spend time thinking about where you want to go in life, and set both short-term and long-term goals.

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    Learn a paid skill you can do with your hands. Welding, painting, HVAC, long-line fishing, building PC’s, anything. Get proficient.

    You may never use it again. Hopefully you develop a skill-set that pays you better/is less physically demanding/is sexier.

    But you will never starve and may be able to feed your family even if your primary occupation falls out of favor.

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    Take care of your body and keep it healthy. You have plenty of time to acquire habits helping that and slowly get rid of those damaging it - use that time before the issue is forced on you.

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    Learn about retirement plans. Compound interest is a young person’s best friend. Compound interest makes rich old people.