RebiJes@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 2 months agoSorry for the potentially controversial question: is it normal for less attractive people to settle down with partners they don't find physically attractive?message-squaremessage-square46fedilinkarrow-up1134
arrow-up1134message-squareSorry for the potentially controversial question: is it normal for less attractive people to settle down with partners they don't find physically attractive?RebiJes@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 2 months agomessage-square46fedilink
minus-squareandrewta@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up39·2 months agoYou should never date someone you aren’t attracted to. That won’t end well. That doesn’t mean they have to be a ten but you have to be attracted to them
minus-squareValmond@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up8·2 months agoWhat about when you get older. Personality, sharing hobbies etc is extremely important in the long run, way more than drooling about someone. Sure, good/ok looks is important but that’s not all.
minus-squareAsafum@feddit.nllinkfedilinkarrow-up1·edit-22 months agoI tried. It doesn’t work at all and you just end up hurting that person. I’m not handsome by any stretch of the imagination, but I still can’t find honey booboos mom attractive, so I have to stay single. I’m also just an absolute waste of oxygen, joke of a human being so there’s that too lol
You should never date someone you aren’t attracted to. That won’t end well. That doesn’t mean they have to be a ten but you have to be attracted to them
What about when you get older.
Personality, sharing hobbies etc is extremely important in the long run, way more than drooling about someone.
Sure, good/ok looks is important but that’s not all.
I tried. It doesn’t work at all and you just end up hurting that person.
I’m not handsome by any stretch of the imagination, but I still can’t find honey booboos mom attractive, so I have to stay single.
I’m also just an absolute waste of oxygen, joke of a human being so there’s that too lol