I am one of the admins of Beehaw and I’m trying to get some feedback on our potential move.

Let’s start out with a little Beehaw history before judgements are passed, please.

A handful of us were beta testing Tildes when we decided to have discussions on a Discord server.

We decided that our ‘Northern Star’ or guiding principle would culminate as ‘Be Nice’ with purposefully vague/flexible interpretations. Our overall goal is to provide a safe space to disenfranchised persons.

We talked for a little over a year and some of our members became impatient. Then someone stepped in to suggest a couple of platforms that we could consider getting started with.

One of those platforms was Lemmy. None of us knew, at that time, anything about ActivityPub.

During the Reddit exodus (surrounding the API outcry and blackout), our instance exploded. We were, initially, crippled by the mass amounts of users seeking refuge.

Thankfully, someone stepped in and volunteered hundreds of hours of work to stabilize our instance and refine it further.

After many hours of talks, it became clear to us that our overall goal could be achieved outside of Lemmy/ActivityPub.

Right now, we feel that Lemmy and ActivityPub have downsides that are limiting us from achieving that goal.

  • @OnlyTakesLs@sh.itjust.works
    11•5 months ago

    Lemmy is even more left wing than reddit. Going full isolation would turn yall into hexbear, probably.

    Are you okay with that risk?

    • @vzq
      7•5 months ago

      They are a different ideological bent than hexbear. They are in no risk of turning into hexbear.

        • @vzq
          2•5 months ago

          I don’t think you have spent time on hexbear. Like, at all.

            • @vzq
              2•4 months ago

              I spent about a week on Hexbear. They banned me for saying gender neutral pronouns exist, and whiteness is a social construct. They said these beliefs are "reactionary”

              Wait what? That does not sound like hexbear AT ALL.

              They are a bunch of grade A assholes, but like half of them display they/them pronouns on their profile (pronouns are mandatory on hexbear profiles). They are at least as trans friendly as we are at blahaj, with exception of the fact that they aren’t really friendly to anyone at all, ever. In fact, our main falling out with them was the mods at 196 not cracking down on purported transphobia hard enough.

              As much as I hate to stick up for the hexbears, there is something more to this story you aren’t telling us.

                • @vzq
                  1•4 months ago

                  The fact you have this ready to go is super sketchy.

                  • Leela [it/its] English
                    2•4 months ago

                    If it didn’t have the information, you would’ve said “YOU CLAIM THINGS WITHOUT PROOF, YOU’RE LYING!!1!1!1!1!1!1!” There’s no winning against a mindset like this, because no matter what the victim does, they will not be trusted.

    • @Omega_Haxors@lemmy.ml
      4•5 months ago

      Sh.itholefor.nazis user once again proving that hexbear could burn down an orphanage and they’d still only be hated for being left of hitler.