That’s why people have tags and similar stuff. That enters in con non con territory and some people are into it. Others are not and should be able to stay clear from it.

Yes exactly. Stay away from any{one/many} who does not respect your consent/boundaries. We would not suggest meeting some{one/many} and diving straight into things like hypnosis with them, take it slow, discuss boundaries etc and see how well they do with other kinks/fetishes before trusting them with something like this.

I’m a different kind of princess from Galavant 2 minutes and 15 seconds https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=smCWu5TWn6Y

Like all kink/fetishes it can be engaged in more or less responsibly. This is why RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) exists. If you would like to know more please feel free to head over to our Kink Education and Discussion community !kink@lemmy.blahaj.zone as we wish to make people and other such creatures much safer when it comes to kink, even and especially one requiring such deep trust.

It is one of our main kinks and as such we are fairly well versed in it and its safety and how it can go wrong.

Ah, something we do not enjoy. Thank you for explaining!

Our goodnes no, that sounds terrible and unlikely to work on us. Thanks for explaining though!

video overstimulation?

Interesting, thanks!

That’s not the definition we’ve found in dictionaries but thank you for providing another definition! That’s very helpful 🙂

Never watched it.

[Genuine] What is the etymology or source of goon? Like why is it called that?

[Genuine] Isn’t gooning and edging the same thing?

It is likely the non-english lesbian communities do not have one either as they were created by the same account.

Yes, we love it!

Exactly this. We want to see more complex relationships in games rather than how they exist right now, discussing boundaries, showing actual care for others, more than just one sex scene especially if they can be controlled by the player(s).

The best example we can personally think of is Cute Demon Crashers for this kind of thing, though arguably it’s only one such scene the consent and getting to know the demons are wonderful and a lot more games could learn a lot from it on consent.

Then there is Haven, the only game we can think of about a pre-existing relationship where the characters are still together at the end and have grown from the experience.

Mainstream AAA games though seem to find thinking about actual relationships instead of getting to know you fantasies that result in the ‘reward’ of sex difficult and this bothers us a lot.

We long for more diverse and meaningful experiences where it’s not just put Kindness Coins (another great game that is a reversal of that trope) in and sex or a relationship falls out.

Link without tracking etc:

https://youtu.be/Dq09-slAiO0

Haven. It even has gay options and you can play it with someone, if you have a couple of controllers or keyboards or something in couch co-op.

Best not to appropriate other culture’s practices or terms though.

Why?

Thanks for explaining more. We apologise for acting so rashly and will try to give a better response soon.

Wow, that’s terrifying. We really appreciate the explanation however. We understand what you mean as we have been unlearning such things, it is difficult but worth it in the end as we want to be fully consensually with both others and ourselves.