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  • autoexectoTransHow's your week been?
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    3 days ago

    I could need some feedback on an experience that I’m overthinking…

    I was at a concert a week ago. I’m kinda tall so I stand to the side to not be too much on the way, but still dancing/jumping and having a good time. Generally I don’t pass, but I was wearing fairly feminine clothes. At some point something kinda pulls a hair stand from behind? So I jump around and see a guy just sorta grinning awkwardly/maybe embarrassed at the floor. I don’t really know what he’s doing so I just stare him down for another moment and get back to the music.

    So, uh, what did he want? It kinda reminds me of boys trying to get girls attention in kindergarten-kind of logic. Did I pass? Was it rude to use my height like that? So many useless questions!

    Feeling really dysphoric about it for some reason too:/








  • If you can afford it, it sounds like going to a therapist to unravel your feelings and possible trauma could be worth it. A good one will not tell you if you are trans, just help you along the way. If you can’t then some lgbt groups offer help to questioning people too.

    You don’t have to rush it just because the vial might expire. Do it on your own time, experiment with other things (thought experiments, clothes…) if jumping to hormones is too much. Remember that it’s not a magic juice that instantly turns you girly, you can always stop if you feel weird on it.

    Also, do you trust her this much? I’m a trans woman on DIY but I’m getting mine from a source I’ve seen other buy from and talk good about. You also need to spend some time researching doses and what blood tests to do first too.


  • autoexectoTransHow's your week been?
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    4 months ago

    I (mtf) bought a couple of summer dresses online which is a huge step because I haven’t allowed myself this kind of femininity yet, and now that they arrived I feel awesome instead of shameful!

    Now I just need to figure out if I actually like them and how well they fit, I’m kinda funny sized in a way most fem clothes are not intended…






  • autoexectoTeknologi@feddit.dkDen frie teknologiordbog
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    6 months ago

    Sidder og læser en engelsk bog oversat til dansk, og fornemmer at oversætteren har haft det svært. Måske en hybrid mellem ordbog og opslagsværk så man også kan beskrive almindelig brug (oversætteren lavede Linux om til Linus, lad være med det!)

    Jeg hjælper også gerne hvis der er noget jeg kan hjælpe med, teknisk eller med at skrive :)


  • autoexectoTransHow's your transition coming along?
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    7 months ago

    Soon at 4 years of hrt and starting to feel a bit hopeless regarding how little it can change on my body.

    But I got myself some cool clothes and I’m pretty proud that I’ve been able to start voice training again after COVID ruined all the progress I made last time!




  • Det er sympatisk nok at politikerne gerne vil beskytte børns privatliv og for at se voldeligt indhold, men kan det ikke blive lidt af en bjørnetjeneste for børn som er i en utryg situation? Ex. har lgbt spørgsmål men ikke-accepterende forældre.

    Jeg gætter på at de fleste forums, eller Lemmy instanser, har ressourcer til at indhente forældre samtykke så i realiteten så er det udelukkende de største mest invasive sociale medier som vinder på loven.

    Edit: læste måske lidt for hurtigt, loven er kun (?) relevant når informationerne bruges til markedsføring. Syntes dog at første del stadig er relevant.