I few weeks ago I hooked up with a guy for the first time, he was a dom and I’ve been wanting to try bdsm and being a sub and it was absolutely amazing. He kept checking in and making me give him a color (traffic light system, green yellow red) but he knew exactly what he was doing and stopped just before I would have given yellow. He was so kind and caring and tbh I have a big crush on him now

Before that I hadn’t been sexually active in several years and he was so lovely