Hey folks,
I’ve been semi out at work for a while now, with our communication systems showing she/they and dressing femme in the workplace.
I’ve settled on wanting to be called by a different name, and talking with my team lead and HR contact am planning a switch over on Monday.
I don’t expect any hostility from the team I’m in, and the company has been very supportive to date.
That doesn’t stop me being a little nervous with the visibility of Slack etc changing over to a distinctly female name.
Was wondering if the experiences of other transfemmes coming out in such a clear way in their workplaces.
I wish I had experience to share, but I just wanted to say I’m so proud of you for working towards this! I haven’t come out to anyone at work yet, but worry about the possible backlash (very much a boys club)
You’re an inspiration and you got this girl! So glad to hear your workplace has been supportive!
On Slack, is there anyone who wouldn’t know who you were once the name change goes into affect? Maybe you can post in a thread everyone is included in and just briefly introduce yourself with your new name and if anyone has questions they can privately message you? Might help mitigate any possible confusion.
Previous name will be well known…
Agreed with my leadership that I’d put a quick heads up on Slack today in my team channel that my name has changed to avoid surprising anyone Monday, and to give the weekend for anyone to digest.
Response was positive so here’s hoping no issues as work goes next week.
Congrats again! I’m sure it will go great. Sounds like you have a good leadership team at work ❤️