I know the second cat. I mean, not the individual cat, but I know exactly what that cat is all about. If you try to pull your finger away, she will dig her claws in, and say “No. Your finger stays here. You don’t get to decide when you leave. I decide. Now stay just where you are.”

“Feed me”

In my experience, this just means “prepare for a savage attack from my back claws while I bite you”