Notes:
My sister Lena (14F) sent me these pictures (so “Me” is Lena, not me) and said I could use them as long as the names were blacked out for advice and such.
Ashlyn (blue, 14F) apparently has NPD, which could be a reason but doesn’t excuse her behavior. She is known for being an overall rude person, especially towards Lena, and is also known for exaggerating, giving vague explanations, not able to identify people and messing up timing on things (bringing up drama that happened “recently” when it either never happened or was weeks ago), and even lying that people don’t like Lena when they clearly do. Lena’s confusion makes me wonder if half of the stuff even happened, and if it did, possibly not in the way Ashlyn tried to convince her it did.
Due to Ashlyn being vague a lot, Lena will ask her what she’s talking about and Ashlyn will get mad and insult her.
I’ve also observed that people say that Ashlyn’s interactions and reasons to be angry at people is often odd and not natural, with stories often exaggerated and fabricated like I already said to prove a point.
Most people Lena talks to don’t even seem to be too fond of Ashlyn and say Lena was far kinder/more respectful than Ashlyn was, ever.
Hey, love ❤️
Honestly, Lena is so nice, she does NOT deserve any of this. Ashlyn sucks.
So, it seems like Ashlyn is being nothing but rude to Lena when Lena just wants answers and is trying to be respectful. Honestly, props to her for seemingly keeping her cool. I would be much meaner to a girl who acted like this.
Correct me if I’m wrong, but Lena seemed to have left the conversation when they were talking and wasn’t “following them”. When she seemingly was, she remained quiet because she was waiting for her turn to talk. This is fairly normal, especially among friends. And no, walking up to someone and waiting your turn, then leaving because they were busy is NOT following people.
And Ashlyn should not be using terms like “Chat”, “Dude”, or “Bro”, because they’re not even friends.
“I’m not your buddy, guy!” - South Park
honestly, same, even tho im a dude.
i agree, she seems like a mess and a handful…