Notes:
My sister Lena (14F) sent me these pictures (so “Me” is Lena, not me) and said I could use them as long as the names were blacked out for advice and such.
Ashlyn (blue, 14F) apparently has NPD, which could be a reason but doesn’t excuse her behavior. She is known for being an overall rude person, especially towards Lena, and is also known for exaggerating, giving vague explanations, not able to identify people and messing up timing on things (bringing up drama that happened “recently” when it either never happened or was weeks ago), and even lying that people don’t like Lena when they clearly do. Lena’s confusion makes me wonder if half of the stuff even happened, and if it did, possibly not in the way Ashlyn tried to convince her it did.
Due to Ashlyn being vague a lot, Lena will ask her what she’s talking about and Ashlyn will get mad and insult her.
I’ve also observed that people say that Ashlyn’s interactions and reasons to be angry at people is often odd and not natural, with stories often exaggerated and fabricated like I already said to prove a point.
Most people Lena talks to don’t even seem to be too fond of Ashlyn and say Lena was far kinder/more respectful than Ashlyn was, ever.
Hey, love ❤️
Honestly, Lena is so nice, she does NOT deserve any of this. Ashlyn sucks.
So, it seems like Ashlyn is being nothing but rude to Lena when Lena just wants answers and is trying to be respectful. Honestly, props to her for seemingly keeping her cool. I would be much meaner to a girl who acted like this.
Correct me if I’m wrong, but Lena seemed to have left the conversation when they were talking and wasn’t “following them”. When she seemingly was, she remained quiet because she was waiting for her turn to talk. This is fairly normal, especially among friends. And no, walking up to someone and waiting your turn, then leaving because they were busy is NOT following people.
And Ashlyn should not be using terms like “Chat”, “Dude”, or “Bro”, because they’re not even friends.
“I’m not your buddy, guy!” - South Park
I would be much meaner to a girl who acted like this.
honestly, same, even tho im a dude.
Ashlyn sucks.
i agree, she seems like a mess and a handful…
also known for exaggerating, giving vague explanations, not able to identify people and messing up timing on things
i learned in school that sources who do this are often not trusted. it’s very hard to believe someone who does this stuff anyway.
Lena’s confusion makes me wonder if half of the stuff even happened, and if it did, possibly not in the way Ashlyn tried to convince her it did.
most likely not. manipulative people are known for gaslighting and twisting stories.
Due to Ashlyn being vague a lot, Lena will ask her what she’s talking about and Ashlyn will get mad and insult her
suspicious.
I’ve also observed that people say that Ashlyn’s interactions and reasons to be angry at people is often odd and not natural, with stories often exaggerated and fabricated like I already said to prove a point.
if i’m not wrong, people with npd are neurodivergent, and neurodivergent people often have different perceptions and interactions than neurotypical people.
Most people Lena talks to don’t even seem to be too fond of Ashlyn and say Lena was far kinder/more respectful than Ashlyn was, ever.
from the conversation given, hell yes.
reaction to photos:
ashlyn’s responses seem exaggerated to an extent, and VERY rude. she appears to not be able to communicate maturely while lena is more respectful and essentially would appear to be attacking lena almost at this point.
and if she’s talked to people already and they’ve said it isn’t true and actually like her, then ashlyn is a queen bee jerk who wants to tear relationships apart just because SHE doesn’t like lena.
and “i’m just not interested anymore” sounds reasonable if she’s dating ashlyn (which she probably isn’t) but ashlyn seems like the type to be friends with someone and then leave them and treat them badly because she loses interest and finds reasons to not like them.
ever heard of the plastics from mean girls? this is what ashlyn’s gonna become if she continues to act like this, and she will eventually lose her group of friends if she continues to be an ass. one day, her true colors will be revealed and almost no one will like her. ashlyn is the queen bee regina george, and her friends are gretchen and karen (and lena would appear to be cady).
