• ERROR: Earth.exe has crashed@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    15 hours ago

    Childhood Memories Unlocked.

    When I was in China, my mother had to find my grandmother (her mother) to babysit me when she was doing migrant work in GuangZhou (she did not have a HuKou in GuangZhou, so its basically a second-class citizen). So I’m assuming my grandmother weren’t available for some reason, so my mother took me to her work. It was some sales job that was mostly commission based, the actuall monthly income was low. And also, unlike in the west, the pay was monthly, not bi-weekly or weekly. And forget about unions, they don’t exist.

    And not the mention, the fine she had to pay for violating the One Child Policy (I was the second child)

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      4 hours ago

      Very tangential, but isn’t the biweekly to weekly pay and american thing? My western country pays monthly too.

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    This is not a depiction of a village, this is what happens when the village no longer exists and everyone has to live in isolation from any social safety nets. Or to put it another way, Neoliberalism.

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        Wow you’re right. I’ll have 2 neoliberalisms please. Gonna max out those shareholder values 💪

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          1 day ago

          Would you like to add genocide to that with just a few purchases from platforms owned by literal white supremacists?

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      20 hours ago

      Nah, in a village you’d see kids at work with parents sometimes too. Usually you’d have some kind of daycare situation, but sometimes that’s not an option.

      I can totally see a village shop where the owner is there with a baby, and the kid kinda grows up in the shop.

      The difference is that they’d own the shop tho…

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        19 hours ago

        We aren’t talking about rasing a kid in a literal village within a Neoliberal society. “It takes a village” is an idiom about how the entire community should help to properly raise a child.

        The saying emphasizes that a child’s upbringing is a communal effort involving many different people and groups, from parents to teachers to neighbors and grandparents.

        The whole idea underscores the belief that the collective involvement of a community is essential in achieving a certain goal or completing a task, like raising a kid.

        Essentially, it’s a friendly reminder that asking for help with hard things is okay because many hands make light work.

        https://grammarist.com/idiom/it-takes-a-village/

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    18 hours ago

    The implication is she was how old when she got pregnant? Yikes. Can we talk about the $.00 Chocolate chip cookie

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      I feel like the person is failing to see beyond the scope of immediate surroundings. They’re seeing the manager as the village in this case. The manager being about as good as they’re in a position to be (because let’s face it, a McDonald’s shift manager isn’t exactly the 1% and has only probably been there a few months longer and can’t tell them to just go home and they’ll get paid regardless) looks a lot like “support” if you don’t look around for the missing friends, family, community daycares, social programs or charities.

      An actual community would see you being supported to be with your child when they weren’t being otherwise cared for. Like a year of parental leave from the government, guaranteed job to come back to, and daycare for when you get back.

      If it never occurred to you to look for those things, the closest person in authority you can see not being as bad as they could be can look an awful lot like a favor.

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        21 hours ago

        I actually would give the manager as much cred as possible here. They’re probably two years older than she is, what the hell can they do besides let her work and keep their head down about it? Within their scope, they really are trying to help.

        Everyone else has failed this child.

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          Oh, 100%. I had hoped to make it clear that the manager is just another person without any actual power. The only power they have is to not send them home and have them work the register instead of the fryer. That maybe the lowest tier power possible granting the largest yet meager favor they can stands out is, as you said, everyone else failing them.

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        17 hours ago

        Maybe if we paid people living wages they could actually afford childcare. Shit is expensive.

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    What are these comments? This isn’t good at all.

    That kid not being in daycare is costing the economy probably 1k a month in child care fees. Not to mention the worker is probably being less efficient.

    Imagine if you worked really hard to open some McDonald’s branches and the workers all started to bring their kids in. Workers these days have no sense of respect.

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          17 hours ago

          Really? I’ve seen it pretty often when an order is going to take a minute and there’s cars in line behind the slow order.
          They also do curbside order pickup, and are one of the only places I can think of where that makes sense (for food orders). Since their system is timed very precisely and already has a queue system, of a person says they want their order at 2, you just drop it in the prep queue the right amount of time beforehand. You also know approximately how many orders of which type you can process at once, so you can disable pickup slots when typical in person orders and booked orders get too close to the threshold.
          Every other type of place just has to make the food early to avoid keeping you waiting, and it results in damp steamy food, inevitably.

          None of that had anything to do with what you were asking, I just went on a tangent. Some places do curbside pickup, particularly in cities.