I think I actually a little different around femme folk because I don’t want to come across as intimidating or creepy, but I’m not usually as worried about it around other people. I think it’s mostly anxiety though. I lean a little femme attraction wise and just really don’t want to be viewed as creepy. As far as I know no one has ever thought I’ve acted creepy, so either the anxiety is unfounded or it’s working just right lol.