i was transfem as a high schooler, it took a while for my parents to get used to, but i remember my dad was literally like: “ok 👍”

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    5 days ago

    that’s so weird :( were they a gay man/straight woman?

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      5 days ago

      Woman, but as she discovered while we were attempting to make things work, not so straight. The entire situation is really complicated.

      In the end, it came down to I would have to stay hidden until she felt comfortable telling her conservative family that her husband was in fact her wife, but at the same time was happily running around with her girlfriend using me as a cover for their relationship(I knew about the girlfriend, have no problems with her, but how mine and my exes relationship got treated once she got a girlfriend was another massive issue).