She acknowledged that I did talk to her about it beforehand, but hasn’t been able to properly process it yet.

We’re OK, I’m just venting.

  • dandelion
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    7 days ago

    That is hard, when the person refuses to be transparent about their feelings to protect their spouse, but … it doesn’t solve the problem and the repression leads to instability. I’m so sorry. Hopefully you have a good couple’s therapist to help. Relationships are hard, even without the stress of transition. 🫂 🫂 🫂