• pH3ra@lemmy.ml
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    23 hours ago

    Everytime I see videos like that, I have to remember the promise I made to myself not to become like my father.
    It gets harder every year.

    • KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      9 hours ago

      i find it helps me to view other people explicitly as separate entities with free will.

      Makes it harder to do any sort of funny business when you’re more aware of their autonomy on a fundamental level.

      • FordBeeblebrox@lemmy.world
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        8 hours ago

        I often think of the phrase “we judge others by their actions and ourselves by our intent,” usually while driving, and try to just let people live their life and their story.