I didn’t mean for this post to cause a bunch of arguing in the comments =(

I thought this was just some gallows humor (e.g. “Everything’s lovely except that I have to fear for my safety all the time”) type of shitpost that sounded similar to comments I’ve heard from women irl a lot.

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      You to the woman taking a cab home after a night at the club: “Ma’am, don’t you know you’re 20x more likely to die by falling, car crash, or unintentional poisoning than being murdered? Why don’t you walk home alone instead of taking the cab?”

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      “She just got raped, beaten and robbed, that totally isn’t a murder! Women are safer than men!” sheesh, talk about not making a point…

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      I’ve been told my whole life, by men, that I can’t go out at night alone, because men, but if I say it it’s forbidden, because woman. Explain.

      Edit: Downvoters cannot explain lmao

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        Unintentional deaths https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/accidental-injury.htm

        Homicide statistics https://www.statista.com/statistics/1388777/murder-victims-in-the-us-by-gender/

        I dont understand why people are so offended by my comment. Why blame a whole demographic by something committed by 0.02% of them? Why are so people so intent on such blame? It accomplishes less than nothing, it just antagonizes the group you are attempting to reach.

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          Because it happens enough to be a problem. Mexicans are also more likely to die from any of those things than from cartel violence so I guess cartels are not a problem? I’m gonna assume you suck at statistics, because the alternative is that you’re sexist.

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          Personally I wasn’t offended at all. There’s just so many people throwing numbers around and I’d like to know where they get them from before I make my own judgement if spread that info elsewhere.

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          2022: Deaths by Accidents (unintentional injuries): 227,039 source

          Deaths by murder and nonnegligent manslaughter: 21,781 source

          While I didn’t find 2022 numbers for the male to female ratio, in 2023 it was 13,789 to 3,849… source

          If you’re uninformed maybe hold back with accusations.

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            Sure, men are getting killed. But they are not getting killed because of their gender, while women on the other hand are often killed exactly because they are women.

            https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Femicide

            So, a woman going out alone in the dark is always at risk of being raped, killed or violated in other ways.

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          Well I imagine that men get killed more in general. The dude might have a point there. It’s just speculation with no fact the way he wrote it.

          But if he is right it would make more sense to get some stats on how many men vs women get attacked, stalked, followed, cat called, etc going about their business at night. My imagination is that those numbers are very different and that they - together with the fact that most women are way weaker than most men - would have a reason to be more afraid.

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            “more men get murdered” isn’t relevant though. Hypothetically, if predominantly men murder lots of men and women equally, a woman would be right to be worried about getting murdered by a man.

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      Fear of zombies could be at an all time high but that doesn’t mean we should implement policies to deal with the risk of zombie invasion.

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      While your sentiment that it is not that bad may be true, the numbers you cited mean nothing.

      Death by shark is rather unlikely, but swimming in shark waters while bloodied might still be more dangerous than numbers suggest.

      We live in the safest time. But also hear of a lot of bad shit happening every day.