I’ve become the tech guy, and family are extremely entitled to my services. My mom especially. BTW I can’t cut her out, because I still live with her and she EXPECTS me to fix anything computer related. She won’t take no for an answer.

I’ve tried to keep track of her passwords with a password manager, I’ve spent literally 8 hours in a single day filling out captchas and replacing passwords, and I’ve spent even more time trying to teach my mom how to use the manager.

She CAN’T learn it, and always makes a new password, which she doesnt keep track of and expects me to fix it. What the hell do it do? She uses firefox, with auto refill on, but it doesn’t autofill on her iphone.

  • weeeeum@lemmy.worldOP
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    Again, she has trouble keeping track of things. Ive given her a printout with her passwords and she loses the paper, and doesnt know how to print it, or is straight up too lazy to type in a long complicated password, so she just makes a new random one.

    She can’t even keep track of the new passwords she makes, so I dont think this would make a very big difference

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      Take a picture with her phone? Then it will be in her gallery. Or frame the paper and hang it on the wall.

      Obviously terrible for security so depends on what is more important to you.

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          Realistically, how often does this happen?

          Maybe find a solution when it happens.

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            My main problem is that she is CONSTANTLY changing passwords. I try to teach her how to use her passwords manager, and have a printout in the vault, but she is too lazy to get the password, and type it in. She is too lazy to even track the new password she makes.

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              Then make it easier for her to retrieve a password. A vault is not a good place. Give her a little notebook she can put in a shelf or drawer.

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              Perhaps many, but I have over 500 accounts in my password manager, yet none of have been leaked per the password exposure report (which I assume is based on the https://haveibeenpwned.com/ database).

              So perhaps the problem is overblown in practice, assuming you don’t use the same password in many sites.

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                My mom signs up for a lot of sketchy shit and has been pwned like 30 times across her emails.

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      Any chance your mom knows how to work a spreadsheet? Mine is old school and just keeps an encrypted spreadsheet synced between her devices so that she only has to remember one password

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      A decent compromise might be to pick a short phrase she can remember, and make all her passwords that phrase+the name of the service.

      Like her bank password would be “iloveop+bank”, her Netflix would be iloveop+netflix", etc.