• Driftking@lemmy.mlOP
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    1 year ago

    It has unfortunately come up before, hence my aprehension in approaching the topic.

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      1 year ago

      Seems like you got the intended consequence. If you want to be honest and your partner can’t handle that honesty, maybe it is better to keep looking. I have a very hard time maintaining lies to continue relationships, and as a result I have very few, but incredibly high-quality friends.