• Cassa
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    So anyone not within your frame of “people” is just trolling and shitting on people. damn, truly “token-effort”

    judge what we don’t understand, instead of letting people just live.

    Drag here isn’t harming anyone, and seemingly understands the confusion people get, and is not judging.

    You know… your comment is precisely what has and will be said about trans people that conform to the gender roles, and NB’s that don’t fit inside them. It’s the thing terf say when “men go into bathroom! it’s horrible!”

    Don’t be a part of the problem plz

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        I disagree. There are abundant cis women and cis men who go to malls, schools, bars, and streets wearing clothes that they believe make themselves look sexy. If using someone’s sexually charged custom pronouns is considered participating in kink then I’d argue going outside wearing anything vaguely sexual like a crop top is also the same level of participating in kink and that is simply accepted by society.

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          Thank you for outlining this, I’ve never really thought about it that way

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          Just existing or looking appealing to sexual partners is not kink nor limited to cis individuals. What an awful argument. This individual is expecting others to help with their personal sexual arousal and playing victim when they refuse to participate. They are a goddamn sex pest.

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            I used cis individuals as representative of the majority (who accepts themselves) rather than an exclusive group.

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        Have to ask, what’s this kink?

        I’ll assume it’s not neopronouns, as that’s just pronouns? And tbh I do not know drag, so I hadon’t know if there is anything else you’re referring to?

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              Drag uses drag/dragself pronouns because drag is a dragon rider. Drag has been in relationships with many dragons, both platonic and romantic. Even when drag was single, being a dragon rider was still part of drag.

              “You can take the dog out of the fight but you can’t take the fight out of the dog” or something.