Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world to Transfem · 20 hours agoI have stopped trying to pass for cis. Now I just pass for "someone cis people try staunchly and vehemently not to look at," and it's nice.lemmy.worldimagemessage-square72fedilinkarrow-up1249
arrow-up1249imageI have stopped trying to pass for cis. Now I just pass for "someone cis people try staunchly and vehemently not to look at," and it's nice.lemmy.worldTanis Nikana@lemmy.world to Transfem · 20 hours agomessage-square72fedilink
minus-squareTanis Nikana@lemmy.worldOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up7·9 hours agoI’m ace and sex-repulsed, so I don’t much appreciate getting hit on, but I mostly just hope I get compliments from other cool queers (which usually happens; it’s just cishets with their razor sharp focus and katalepsis-esque inability to see).
minus-squaresocialpankakemixlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·7 hours agoyeah I always get comfy around queer people then some cis het dude sees that, comes in, and makes everybody uncomfortable, never fails.
I’m ace and sex-repulsed, so I don’t much appreciate getting hit on, but I mostly just hope I get compliments from other cool queers (which usually happens; it’s just cishets with their razor sharp focus and katalepsis-esque inability to see).
yeah I always get comfy around queer people then some cis het dude sees that, comes in, and makes everybody uncomfortable, never fails.