subverted_per to TransfemEnglish · 2 days agoI'm always correcting myself.imagemessage-square3fedilinkarrow-up153file-text
arrow-up153imageI'm always correcting myself.subverted_per to TransfemEnglish · 2 days agomessage-square3fedilinkfile-text
To be fair also, I’m still presenting as male in public. But seriously how long does it take to remember?
minus-squareapprehentice@lemmy.enchanted.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up15·2 days agoIt took me a few months and I still hesitate when gendering myself sometimes, but it’s hesitation now, not correction. It helps that I’m out full-time now, though and have been for over a month. You’ll get there, girl. Just be kind to yourself.
minus-squaresubverted_perOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up10·2 days agoThank you. it’s hard to change a lifetime of habit, but I still want to kick myself every time it happens.
It took me a few months and I still hesitate when gendering myself sometimes, but it’s hesitation now, not correction. It helps that I’m out full-time now, though and have been for over a month. You’ll get there, girl. Just be kind to yourself.
Thank you. it’s hard to change a lifetime of habit, but I still want to kick myself every time it happens.